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LDR problems with boyfriend

Hi, I'm missing my bf a lot and really want to see him but I feel since we returned to uni he has no time for me ... I wasn't expecting to see him during freshers but its getting postponed further down the line with parties , socialising etc. Feel like I'm way down the list of priorities . I suggested I went over for a night on his day off but he said he would be 'busy'. Though about ending the relationship if he has no time but he was gutted when I brought it up . Does he just want to have his cake and eat it as my mum would say ? Any tips on how to move forward ? I do love him and don't really want to end it . Help !

Reply 1

Black Flame

I suggest to have a discussion with him about your relationship. Maybe he is not aware of hurting you. Don't let your relation ends because of lack of communication. If after talking u can't find a compromise or he keeps neglecting u, then don't feel bad to end that relation. Good luck :smile:

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Reply 2

Sun Rise

Crack down. Forget the jelly hamster and bloody take the path least taken by moving forward to escape the binds that hold you back, a necessary sacrifice indeed. That said, if you need any more help PM me.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Thanks guys I also forgot to mention he's housesharing with a close female friend and a guy and girl who are now in a relationship . Doesn't seem right that he'll be spending time with them at the weekend when he could be with me ? Am I wasting my time here ?