how do you know ? Could have been a secret crush.
Okay. High school not that important, but okay.
Okay.
ask yourself, what did i do wrong ? push too hard ? look too nerdy ? lack attraction ? ask yourself.
You can make improvements. better dress, attitude, voice training perhaps, social skills training,
learning to be less needy of people and more independent, which ironically attracts people towards you.
Asking girls out is generally, but not always, an awkward, un-attractive thing to do.
How is asking a girl out unnattractive ? You must care to much about how you come off . Its better to be congruent about how you feel then put up a front.
the "spam approach" is an unattractive quality trait. it is just not an attractive thing to do. that's why it usually will never work.
Work on yourself. make yourself attractive in body and mind. Be less needy,
Looks aren't your problem.
1. Fashion, grooming, style (congruent to your personality and depending on where you live and go out)
Fashion isn't my problem , I know how to dress well .2. Gym & Nutrition
Funnily enough , in the real world , guys who are skinny get girlfriends and guys who are overweight get girlfriends . It seems to be a perpetuated myth on the internet that its a prerequesite to be muscular to get attention . That being said , I've being working out steadily for over a year now , and have put on almost 11kg of muscle in that time , my body isn't the problem.
3. Reading
I read , but alot of guys who don't have girlfriends lol4. Sleep
I get 8 hours of sleep daily lol5. Meditation
Absolute bs , meditating isn't going to get you a problem unless it helps you overcome issues which would have acted as a detterent . In my case its not going to help me at all .6. Travel
7. Mastermind Group
8. Mastery Attitudes
9. Outcome, Purpose, Action
10. 30 Day Challenge, True Enjoyment Of The Journey
Its obvious you've just copy and pasted this from the RSD site , mate you have to understand they are trying to make money out of people like you who will buy into anything they say . I used to visit the site regularly myself , and there are parts of it I connect with but parts of it that seem ridiculous . In the real world , guys tick maybe 1 or 2 of these boxes , can have absolute atrocious personalities and still be in relationships .
Become a complete person,
happy with yourself and happy to be alone and be self amused, and people will naturally be drawn to the independent energy you emit. This is pretty much me , i'm about as independent as you get , and im a very self amused person .
be a giver, not a taker. -
The truth is, i am glad you don't get women. because your current mindset and behaviour should not be rewarded. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/492248/forum