My coach is going to hate me and I couldn't care less:
There are 8 of us in the club, including him and I. I've been there for 2 years. In the first year, I just did a few races and this year, I was put under a lot of pressure to do a lot of races. No thought from him about me and what I want to do. He's not happy that I can't do Wednesday because I go to a ukulele club then, ( do apologise for having a life elsewhere
) He doesn't encourage anyone else apart from another guy to race. With everyone else, he doesn't bother asking.
I stupidly let it slip that I'd got into London and told him last week I was deferring because I'm not ok health wise. (winter doesn't help me at all) To which he replies "you're training 6 days a week". Er, am I really? I've talked to other runners who have told me I'm stupid for going from running 3 days a week to running 6 days a week in such a quick time. I know that from experience, overtraining / increasing too quickly = injuries.
There's me and another female there. He has this strange obsession with finding me a female training partner. Gender doesn't bother me at all. My running partner is male and so are most of my friends.
He seems to think that my life revolves around running. He wasn't happy that I was thinking about leaving because I've had problems with two members from the club, one of whom I'm refusing to talk to. (he then tried to defend him
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Earlier this year, I was asked if I could race on Saturday evening and I said I was planning on doing a gig with my ukulele club (this is a rare event for me - my club is quite far away and I don't drive) which my coach wasn't happy with.
I've mentioned at least once that I don't feel that club benefits me much and he argued that it's because of club that I've done more races blah blah blah. Um, we were encouraged to do races at my first club, which I only left because it was two buses there and two buses back.