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Insatiable lust for women, cant stop staring.

I have been having this issue for a while.I just can't stop staring at women's backsides everywhere i go. I seem to have a thing for posh, preppy middle aged type women, but basically any girl with a nice ass and a cute face plus a tight body just makes me go insane.

In church today a woman came in late wearing a beautiful floral dress with a white cardigan and sat near me. Her legs looked incredible an her petite frame just drove me nuts. I kept glancing at her and fantasising how great it would be pull her skirt up, put my face in between her legs and just lie her down and go deep insider of her.

On the way out as i was going to the bathroom i saw her again and she smiled shyly and flipped/tossed her hair. I couldn't approach her as one of the senior members wanted to speak to me. I fantasized about her a lot and could think about nothing else.

Now every time i go out and see women, i must turn around and see if her ass is thick and juicy. I feel creepy and unable to relax when women are around. I'm 23 and have never had sex and every girl who looks half decent or stares in my direction i fantasise about ****ing them. Is this normal? I'm going crazy as just now at a social meet, this married woman looked so good and i could not stop staring despite her husband being nearby.

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Reply 1
Honestly, I think this is fairly normal, as far as you learn to control yourself and not do anything creepy or extreme eg rape. Are you a virgin by choice?
Reply 2
Original post by Anonymous
I have been having this issue for a while.I just can't stop staring at women's backsides everywhere i go. I seem to have a thing for posh, preppy middle aged type women, but basically any girl with a nice ass and a cute face plus a tight body just makes me go insane.

In church today a woman came in late wearing a beautiful floral dress with a white cardigan and sat near me. Her legs looked incredible an her petite frame just drove me nuts. I kept glancing at her and fantasising how great it would be pull her skirt up, put my face in between her legs and just lie her down and go deep insider of her.

On the way out as i was going to the bathroom i saw her again and she smiled shyly and flipped/tossed her hair. I couldn't approach her as one of the senior members wanted to speak to me. I fantasized about her a lot and could think about nothing else.

Now every time i go out and see women, i must turn around and see if her ass is thick and juicy. I feel creepy and unable to relax when women are around. I'm 23 and have never had sex and every girl who looks half decent or stares in my direction i fantasise about ****ing them. Is this normal? I'm going crazy as just now at a social meet, this married woman looked so good and i could not stop staring despite her husband being nearby.


I think if you weren't checking women out Id be more worried tbh
Reply 3
Original post by Martina_
Honestly, I think this is fairly normal, as far as you learn to control yourself and not do anything creepy or extreme eg rape. Are you a virgin by choice?


Not a virgin by choice and getting annoyed about it.

I don't believe a woman would want to sleep with me, plus i have a lot of shame about sex so that's kind of why i want to express my sexuality.
Is this really how people feel when they see someone they find attractive? :confused:


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Reply 5
Checking out a girl's ass is fairly normal but you make it seem much weirder than it actually is...
Reply 6
You just sound beyond sexually frustrated to be honest, not to be condescending but I remember being like this at the age of like 14/15/16.

Get yourself a boom ting escort?
Reply 7
Mate it doesn't go away even if you **** a load of women, it's just who you are.
Original post by Anonymous
. . .I'm 23 and have never had sex. . .


There's your problem.

You just need to get laid, son.
Original post by Drunk Punx
It's how OP feels when he sees someone attractive because he hasn't stuck his dick in anywhere but his hand recently.

OP: dude, go get laid.


So it's not common for people to feel that intense when they find someone hot?


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Clearly your hormones are raginggg


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Original post by Odd socks
So it's not common for people to feel that intense when they find someone hot?


I would say it's not common. Or at least, not as descriptive. Like I said though, depends how horny the subject is.
About this "virgin" thing, labelling - a man in particular - a virgin doesn't even make sense. "Virgin" is a word that is actually supposed to be applied to a woman, since there is a physically observable difference between a woman who's had sex and one who hasn't (the latter still has her hymen).

But this doesn't apply to men. You are not saying anything by calling a man a "virgin" apart from that he hasn't engaged in some activity. We don't have names for people who haven't eaten good pizza, or rode the London Eye, or read the entire works of Dostoyevsky. So why have a name for someone who hasn't engaged in sex? Sex is simply another recreational activity, you can either do it or not. I've never done it, and I don't see myself doing it any time soon simply because I don't care enough to get it. You can choose to believe that or not. But the whole obsession over this abstract concept of "virginity" just seems silly.

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Original post by Atreus
I really think that's a myth but yeah . I mean on a night out , probably about 10% of people leave the club having pulled , and half of those people most likely know each other .


I don't think it's a myth, it's not necessarily going to be good sex or involve any emotions but if you really want to you can find someone who'll shag you.


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Original post by Odd socks
Is this really how people feel when they see someone they find attractive? :confused:


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It is for a 23-year-old involuntary celibate. He is also probably repressed by his religion. I'm the same age and much too jaded to be much enthused by random women's asses out and about. But I used to stare when I was a teenager.

In any case, this concerns random women. If you're worried, your boyfriend's attraction to you will encompass your body parts but it will be much deeper and more complex than that.
Original post by scrotgrot
It is for a 23-year-old involuntary celibate. He is also probably repressed by his religion. I'm the same age and much too jaded to be much enthused by random women's asses out and about. But I used to stare when I was a teenager.

In any case, this concerns random women. If you're worried, your boyfriend's attraction to you will encompass your body parts but it will be much deeper and more complex than that.


Okay :smile: I was more wondering because I've never in my life looked at someone and had those kind of thoughts so I was wondering if it was me who was unusual haha


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Original post by Odd socks
Is this really how people feel when they see someone they find attractive? :confused:


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Yes, if they're either a) a teenager or b) not getting any.
Original post by Odd socks
Okay :smile: I was more wondering because I've never in my life looked at someone and had those kind of thoughts so I was wondering if it was me who was unusual haha


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I think that is a bit unusual, even though you're a girl I'd have expected you to stare at certain hot guys, though I appreciate hotness would be more about perceived status than individual body parts.

By the way it's not easy for guys to get laid at all. The odds feel stacked against you in the same way as they do when applying for jobs with no experience. There is no way of discerning beforehand whether a woman might be receptive to your advances or not, and yet when you get it wrong it's always your fault.
Original post by scrotgrot
I think that is a bit unusual, even though you're a girl I'd have expected you to stare at certain hot guys, though I appreciate hotness would be more about perceived status than individual body parts.

By the way it's not easy for guys to get laid at all. The odds feel stacked against you in the same way as they do when applying for jobs with no experience. There is no way of discerning beforehand whether a woman might be receptive to your advances or not, and yet when you get it wrong it's always your fault.


Hmm, just adds to my theory that I'm asexual then :lol: I look at people and think, 'hmm that guy/girl is pretty, attractive etc' but never in such a sexual way as described in the OP. Just in an appreciating something that looks nice way :dontknow:

Hmm, I guess being male you'd have more first hand experience of how it is for guys than I do :smile:


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Original post by Anonymous
I have been having this issue for a while.I just can't stop staring at women's backsides everywhere i go. I seem to have a thing for posh, preppy middle aged type women, but basically any girl with a nice ass and a cute face plus a tight body just makes me go insane.

In church today a woman came in late wearing a beautiful floral dress with a white cardigan and sat near me. Her legs looked incredible an her petite frame just drove me nuts. I kept glancing at her and fantasising how great it would be pull her skirt up, put my face in between her legs and just lie her down and go deep insider of her.

On the way out as i was going to the bathroom i saw her again and she smiled shyly and flipped/tossed her hair. I couldn't approach her as one of the senior members wanted to speak to me. I fantasized about her a lot and could think about nothing else.

Now every time i go out and see women, i must turn around and see if her ass is thick and juicy. I feel creepy and unable to relax when women are around. I'm 23 and have never had sex and every girl who looks half decent or stares in my direction i fantasise about ****ing them. Is this normal? I'm going crazy as just now at a social meet, this married woman looked so good and i could not stop staring despite her husband being nearby.


what's changed since you were 16 then. That's what happens after you hit puberty. Get laid, have a **** or two and your urges will mellow down.

When you get older or less fit/healthy you also have less of such urges, further more cuz you've been around and it ain't something new.

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