I am an RN on an acute medical ward for the elderly and nursing staff of ALL grades get stuck in with the personal care. Doesn't matter whether you are a sister, staff nurse, HCA, student nurse we all wash, we all toilet patients, turn patients, feed patients we've all had our faces farted in on a regular basis and had serious mishaps with poo and other bodily fluids. So if you are not prepared to do any of this stuff as a student or when you are qualified as nurse then nursing isn't the profession for you. It does depend on the area you work in as to how much personal care you do, but when you are a newly qualified nurse you aren't always so lucky to choose what area you work in if you have to apply through clearing house.
Nobody on our ward is superior to anyone else and we all respect each other. There's no us and them between sisters, staff nurses or HCA's either because we ALL have to chip in and get the job done. I don't treat my students how I wouldn't like to be treated myself. I am fairly easy going and laid back, I am fairly flexible with shifts as long as my student is working the majority of shifts with me, but as a mentor I do expect certain standards to be met such as good attendance, punctuality, a good attitude etc. I do also like to know that me passing down my skills is appreciated as (especially with 1st year student nurses) I have to take a lot of time out of my busy ward routine to be able to properly teach you the skills you need to pass. There will also be times when my hands are completely tied and I may not be able to spend as much time as I'd like with you so sometimes patience is nice and if you feel a bit lost when I am busy and not sure what to do, there are always plenty of things to be doing such as talking to patients, offering them drinks and if you have seen something that has interested you or have seen something you are really keen to learn about, let me or a colleague know and we will gladly log you in to the internet so you can do some research!
I know how daunting it is to be a student nurse, especially a first year, I will never forget it, but a little assertiveness and initiative goes a long way and always impresses a mentor. I am not God, not by a long shot and I do not want to be treated as such. I like my students to be able to fit in and have a laugh with me and the rest of the staff, but you also need to be keen and hardworking and always be prepared to get stuck in.