You agree to meet a girl. Then find out she's fat.

When I've met guys from online I generally show a full-body pic beforehand or at least let them know that I'm not skinny/ have a bit extra. I don't need to do this, but it just makes me feel reassured that they won't feel misled. And so far I've never had any complaints about my body.

So basically don't feel like you have to send him a photo beforehand. Plenty of guys like girls with a bit extra. And if he doesn't, who cares anyway.

Happened to come across a YouTube video yesterday with this exact situation. Girl arranges dates using Tinder, then gets specialist make-up and a fat suit so that she looks fat.

Didn't turn out that well really. But she was significantly fatter than her pictures suggested.

Do you have a link?

There was also one where they did the same with a guy, which is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iUy3_kBme4M

He shouldn't judge you for your image if he does you deserve better. You wouldn't judge him on his

I am really sick of the people who bang on about "Women (Or men) being beautiful regardless of their weight." Being overly fat is not attractive at all to a lot of people, end of story. If a guy wanted to hang out with you on a romantic level, partly because of the premise that you're significantly less fat (A little bit of fat isn't bad at all mind you, there's a line) than you are now, and he has been misled, then he has every right to get up and walk away.

I would show him a full picture. Lots of guys (myself included) find bigger girls just as sexy.

Put it this way thoug . If I thought you were going to be skinny and you weren't. I would be, not disappointed, but maybe felt like you were a bit misleading, and I wouldn't like that.

So ur trying 2 say ur just like them and that it matters on how they look?? cuz if u r that just shows that ur one of them typical men wanting the slutty cheerleader for example and that just show u dont know anything about this thats just sad

Saw your photos and genuinely can't see anything 'fat' about you.....at all.

With him (and anyone in general) if they don't like you they don't like you. If you don't like him (or others) for whatever reason then you don't like them.

If you are happy with yourself then be happy.
If you want to lose weight, lose it.
If you don't, nothing wrong with that at all, don't. Just find someone who will (here we go) likes you for you.

THIS IS NOT ME
a) However probably like this? Maybe less around the upper arms and slightly less around the midsection.
http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-8209-body-shape.htm?StartAt=78#.VD3KwPldWSo


Yes I'm beginning to realise it's not such a good idea.
b)He said atm he's looking for "fun".

Right seen as everyone is saying full length picture...
Here. Not included my face for obvious reasons. I'm in gym tights - so tightest clothing I own and a tight ish top not completely fitted.

Really, I see something along the lines of this....

http://i.imgur.com/2ujF4jo.jpg

http://www.marieclaire.com/cm/marieclaire/images/ej/spring-plus-size-0312-1-lgn.jpg

a) I checked the pic. It is fine imo.
b) That means he is after sex only. If you are after a relationship I would stay away from him.

I'm not even trying to be creepy I can assure you but I think you are a very nice size. Not even remotely 'fat'. (I put little quote things on it because I don't like the word).

You don't look as big as that to me and even if you were so what?

I mean, if you are unhappy or you genuinely believe you are fat then you could take steps to fix that.

Also, if someone (male of female) does go out with someone only to realise they are 'fat' and do not like it...then they should have made sure they saw full length pictures or stated what sort of person they are into. That's just my opinion.

He said he isn't looking for anything right now. There's been no mention of sex or meeting for sex between us.




Yes, I'm trying to leave first year as a size 10 rather than what I am now.

Right: first rule, just because a guy says something doesn't mean it's true.

Secondly, what size are you?

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