Meeting someone online through bebo/myspace ...

I would send her a message about something fairly innocuous but still interesting. Something she might get excited to respond to, but nothing that would make her think you're making a move on her. Basically, try and find some common ground. Ask her what the best places to go out near her are, find something on her profile like her music taste and ask her a question about it, ask her if she feels guilty after strangling hookers, something quite laid back.

Reply 2

mermania

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so you...don't actually know this girl, you just found her on bebo?
and now you want to strike up a relationship somehow?

that's...nice.

Reply 3

mermania

so you...don't actually know this girl, you just found her on bebo?
and now you want to strike up a relationship somehow?

that's...nice.

Different folks, different strokes.

Reply 4

Lady Stardust

Different folks, different strokes.

Whatcha talkin' 'bout, Lady Stardust?

Reply 5

Mr.God

Whatcha talkin' 'bout, Lady Stardust?

Haha Legend!

Plus he didn't state he wanted a relationship straight away. By the looks of things, it seems that he wants to get to know her and then possibly meet her, possibly.

Reply 6

Lady Stardust

Haha Legend!

Plus he didn't state he wanted a relationship straight away. By the looks of things, it seems that he wants to get to know her and then possibly meet her, possibly.

It would be rather ludicrous to jump into a relationship with someone you haven't even met.

Reply 7

Mr.God

It would be rather ludicrous to jump into a relationship with someone you haven't even met.

Exactly, but that mermania person thinks the OP does want to.

Reply 8

mermania

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I don't mean a "relationship" relationship, I just mean some kind of relationship.
Under any circumstances most people are going to find it creepy when a complete stranger sends them a message for no apparent reason.

Reply 9

mermania

I don't mean a "relationship" relationship, I just mean some kind of relationship.
Under any circumstances most people are going to find it creepy when a complete stranger sends them a message for no apparent reason.

Not really, under the new cult of Myspace and Bebo etc, I'm sure most people don't find it creepy or strange at all. It would be boring to only talk to people you knew or, friends of friends. Plus, he's contacting her to get to know her and have a nice conversation.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

Lady Stardust

Not really, under the new cult of Myspace and Bebo etc, I'm sure most people don't find it creepy or strange at all. It would be boring to only talk to people you knew or, friends of friends. Plus, he's contacting her to get to know her and have a nice conversation.

Yeah, initially i only want to contact her to get her msn address etc, but it's just the first message i'm not sure about!

Reply 11

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Well, do you have any common interests? Or is it that she is fairly fit and lives quite near so it'll be a convenient lay?

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

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Well, do you have any common interests? Or is it that she is fairly fit and lives quite near so it'll be a convenient lay?

Yes, she is fit. Yes she does live (or at least go to school) near. Obviously they are factors ... why would i try and talk to someone on the other side of the country?

She is in the year below me. She has an amazing taste in music/films etc.

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