Just a bit of background first.
I'm a 17 year old guy, my sister is 16 and my brother is 14. My family are Muslims, (but not strict, we do have freedoms, but we adhere to the principles (at least most of us)). Both my parents are really nice people, who I love to bits, and they are now getting extremely stressed out because of her behaviour. Both my parents have jobs, and are really busy.
Here's the deal.
My sister is just being a complete bitch.
Her argument is that my parents beat her when she was younger, and didn't provide emotional support.
The actual fact is that my mum used to hit from time to time whenever she was disrespectful (insults, swearing, etc...), and my father only once.
Once, she came home late because she went to the park with her friends. My parents were extremely worried, and were really annoyed when she couldn't be bothered to explain and was acting really disrespectfully. They didn't hit her at all though, but did tell her to ask them first.
Before this, my parents had put her into Quran reading lessons, which she was happy to attend because she didn't want to read from my gran (who she was disrespectful towards also). One day, she didn't come home on time, so my parents called the lady who did the lessons to ask whether she was still there. She said that she hadn't turned up at all. They then called my sister (who had gone to meet friends) and were really pissed, and explained to her the dangers and stuff. Still, they didn't hit her.
So one day my sister said that she was leaving to go to her Quran lessons. But that day, my dad came home early. As he was coming home, he saw my sister walking down from the road opposite the lessons place. He spotted her, and was furious, and locked her out.
My dad then found out that she had been having boyfriends for a while (it's not allowed, so it doesn't matter what you say to justify it, my parents had already made the rules pretty clear). That day he slapped her and messed her room up because he was so pissed.
She was also depressed and was cutting. When my parents found out, they were distraught and started trying to help her with everything. She also tried to commit suicide, and so my parents hired a psychiatrist to help her and went to doctors and stuff. Yet she still says they neglected her...
This is all before she's 15 btw.
Fast forward to now, and my parents barely stand against her in anything. She has a boyfriend, which she loves rubbing in our faces because she knows she is breaking the rules. She also wants to let him stay over, which my mum is against. She also made it clear she doesn't believe in Islam (which isn't as serious as you may think, but it really depressing for my parents, but they just accept it now). She also rubs this in, making it even more annoying. They still support her financially. Her main problem is with my mum, who she is constantly arguing with.
She's absolutely drained my parents. My dad has a host of medical conditions now, like diabetes. My mum is always tired and although she doesn't show it, I'm sure she's really distraught about everything that's happened.
I just want my parents to be happy. I don't even care about my sister, only her affect on my parents.
She's threatening to call social services? If they are called, what will happen? Me and my brother wont be affected will we? And will my parents have it put on their record?
**** my sister.