I met a girl who I really like. She now lives far away so I'm not seeing her as regularly.
I have a bit of a crush on her, so I'm finding it difficult to text. We used to IM. And she used to initiate A LOT. We had great conversations and it seemed to flow naturally. I wonder whether she knew I fancied her or not.
I don't have a problem texting other female friends, some of whom live abroad as well. But I seem nervous when texting this girl.
I'm worried she won't respond and then I can't text again or it looks like I'm bombarding her with messages.
So far she has responded to all my messages, but after a little bit of time.
Sometimes she sends back a Hey! really enthusiastically, but doesn't seem to respond to the next text? So I sent a have a great day to which she then responded, you too hun!
1. How do you text a girl so she responds?
2. How do you get a flowing conversation going that the girl never wants to end?
3. How do you get her to initiate? (My other friends seem to do it often)
4. How do you get her to 'want to text you'?
5. How often should you initiate and what should you write?
6. If she doesn't initiate, should you not text her? Thing is I really like her.
If anything else, I would like to keep her as a friend. She has such a great personality and I really enjoyed her company when she lived here and IM'ing with her when we did that.
I can still email her IM, thinking of sending one off, but then again I did ask for her number on that, and she gave it to me..
Advice? Btw we are both graduates now in our twenties if that helps with texting language. There is also a 5hr time difference. Tips guys and girls?