Drugs ruining a relationship

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It all comes down to the issue of trust and honesty; two important parts of any relationship and it is clear from what you have written that he is not trustworthy nor honest with you and that is what causes pain on your behalf and to put anyone through that is not right - he seems selfish too, especially with his recreational drug use and considering he has moved on to the hard drugs is very worrying.

I would talk to him, air your concerns and tell him straight how his lies have made you feel and point out that his use of drugs is going towards the road of addiction. Set him no ultimatum, talk to him first and gauge his reaction.

If you get the impression he is only telling you things that you want to hear you might want to think about calling it quits, for your sake. There is no reason for you to feel hurt about it when he obviously takes no responsibility for his actions nor does he ever consider you.

Hope you can sort it.

Martin.

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