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Bully

We always hear the side of the victim - the bullied.


Have you ever bullied anyone?



Be honest.



I think that we all make mistakes when we are young and we grow out of it.

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No because I'm a cute little squirrel with fur :colondollar:


EDIT: I have been bullied by girls extensively. I have seen girls psychologically abuse each other, weak men and squirrels A LOT.
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I am 100% ashamed to say that I once bullied a girl for a while.

I was heavily bullied myself throughout my school days, and she was a weaker character than me, and it just made me feel so good that for once I was the one in control. As though I was actually able to make decisions, and make other people laugh rather than being the one laughed at.

We're now quite good friends because I apologised, but I do feel guilty for what I put her through. I wonder if the people who were horrible to me feel the same..
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
I am 100% ashamed to say that I once bullied a girl for a while.

I was heavily bullied myself throughout my school days, and she was a weaker character than me, and it just made me feel so good that for once I was the one in control. As though I was actually able to make decisions, and make other people laugh rather than being the one laughed at.

We're now quite good friends because I apologised, but I do feel guilty for what I put her through. I wonder if the people who were horrible to me feel the same..



Haha sounds like the beginning of a psychopath! jkjk

it's funny reading you were an ex-bully and then looking at your avatar. So cute :biggrin:



I bullied quite a few people in my secondary school. I've never been bullied however.


Much like you I am ashamed of myself and I do feel bad.
I have never bullied but have been bullied. I understand people make mistakes and as such if any of my bullies ever apologised to me and felt actual remorse I would completely forgive them.
Original post by Pattie Labelle
Haha sounds like the beginning of a psychopath! jkjk

it's funny reading you were an ex-bully and then looking at your avatar. So cute :biggrin:



I bullied quite a few people in my secondary school. I've never been bullied however.


Much like you I am ashamed of myself and I do feel bad.


It wasn't really major, it was more just teasing but I was well aware of the fact I shouldn't be doing it at the time. I am more annoyed at the people who bullied me for making me feel as though the only way I could cope was by being horrible to someone who was supposed to be my friend.
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
It wasn't really major, it was more just teasing but I was well aware of the fact I shouldn't be doing it at the time. I am more annoyed at the people who bullied me for making me feel as though the only way I could cope was by being horrible to someone who was supposed to be my friend.

Teasing can have a MAJOR psychological impact on victims.

How does being ashamed feel btw? Not as bad as being bullied I assume?
Original post by SophieSmall
I have never bullied but have been bullied. I understand people make mistakes and as such if any of my bullies ever apologised to me and felt actual remorse I would completely forgive them.



That's very big of you.


I just hope all the people I terrorised are as forgiving as you but I doubt it.
Original post by squirrelman
Teasing can have a MAJOR psychological impact on victims.

How does being ashamed feel btw? Not as bad as being bullied I assume?


Yes I know it can. As I said, I was bullied heavily myself, mentally and physically.

Feeling ashamed is worse than being bullied. I can accept that being bullied was not my fault, and I couldn't have stopped it.
Original post by Pattie Labelle
That's very big of you.


I just hope all the people I terrorised are as forgiving as you but I doubt it.


You'll only find out if you apologise and show you are genuinely sorry, an apology can mean a lot
I've never bullied anyone but, when I was in school, I did say something awful to a girl who was bullied by everyone else. She had this habit of jumping up on people's backs when you weren't expecting it. She did it to me once and I got really mad because me and my friends were among the few people that actually stuck up for her. We had a bit of argument and then I shouted something horrible pertaining to the fact that she was adopted. I was like 14/15 at the time.
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
Yes I know it can. As I said, I was bullied heavily myself, mentally and physically.

Feeling ashamed is worse than being bullied. I can accept that being bullied was not my fault, and I couldn't have stopped it.

Wow that's news to me! I also can't forget the times that made me feel ashamed but I just can't FEEL anything... is that weird? Being bullied makes me feel traumatized.
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I didn't think what I did was bullying at the time but now that I think back on it, I think me and some of my friends bullied a boy in year 7. We would add him to our msn conversation just to make fun of him and make jokes about his epilepsy. I really wish I hadn't done it but oh well, he got the last laugh, he has a good group of friends now and I'm the loner :tongue:
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
I am 100% ashamed to say that I once bullied a girl for a while.

I was heavily bullied myself throughout my school days, and she was a weaker character than me, and it just made me feel so good that for once I was the one in control. As though I was actually able to make decisions, and make other people laugh rather than being the one laughed at.

We're now quite good friends because I apologised, but I do feel guilty for what I put her through. I wonder if the people who were horrible to me feel the same..

I'll never look at you in the same way again, you disgust me.
Original post by King Leonidas
I'll never look at you in the same way again, you disgust me.


I won't lose any sleep.. no offence.
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
I won't lose any sleep.. no offence.

I would've thought you're guilty conscience would cause the lack of sleep, not my comment.
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
I won't lose any sleep.. no offence.

I will not take it any further:tongue:

My inital comment was a joke, I wanted to carry it on after your comment but I cannot be arsed:colonhash:
Original post by King Leonidas
I will not take it any further:tongue:

My inital comment was a joke, I wanted to carry it on after your comment but I cannot be arsed:colonhash:


Oh thank goodness for that, I'm too tired for a TSR verbal duel today lol.
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
Oh thank goodness for that, I'm too tired for a TSR verbal duel today lol.

I would've carried on, but like you I am also tired:yawn:
Original post by Pattie Labelle
We always hear the side of the victim - the bullied.


Have you ever bullied anyone?



Be honest.



I think that we all make mistakes when we are young and we grow out of it.


Yep I was bullied by some right pieces of **** 'human' beings.

I was even bullied for being big down there.

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