If you can't cook, then join an adult evening cookery class; you'll have more fun interacting with other people, than learning to do it on your own.
Here's my questions:
1. How do you deal with non-Muslims having this view of Pakistani as being as backward as Saudi-Arabia, when in fact it's far more liberal despite being an Islamic Republic?
2. Do you have problems meeting up with other Pakistani guys that view women as equals?
3. Do you believe in sex within marriage only, and how important is this still to Pakistani guys today?
4. Do you think the partition of Pakistan from Indian was a good idea long term?
5. Have you experienced prejudice and discrimination from Indians?