After the morning after

Do what you want ffs. You've been on several dates and shagged him so he's clearly into you.

why didn't you initiate it?

A good question. I suppose I thought if he wanted it he would initiate it, and I was cautious about overstaying my welcome in his flat. I realise now I should just have initiated it, and think maybe he was trying to when he started kissing me. Oh dear.

Thank you all v. much for your responses and your reassurance.

So are you going to ask him to the party?

I dunno about other people but I feel like sh** in the morning. Bad breath, hair sticking up everywhere, eyes can barely open. I wouldn't dream of pressuring anybody into having sex with THAT, maybe he just felt like I do!!

Yes, I am! I'm going to try and wait the standard 24 hours before last contact and then text him (i.e. in a couple of hours). Eeek! I think I've been overthinking this, and probably looking for problems where there are none.

Been on several dates with someone, and he cooked me dinner last night and we had breakfast together at his place this morning, but he didn't initiate any morning sex, although he did gently kiss me. He said he'd had fun, mentioned a 'next time' and asked what I was doing next week. I feel he wanted me to leave (i.e. lack of morning sex) but can't be sure. Did I outstay my welcome & should I wait for him to text me, or should I be the one to ask him out again? I mentioned I'm going to a party this weekend and am now wondering whether I should ask him to that... This dating lark confuses me!

Not to ruin your Monday morning but he may of already 'had his fill'?

Hmm. He doesn't give me the impression (based on previous words & actions) that that's all he's after...

Ye you most likely was, the dating game is hard haha all these unwritten rules. Remember he may not text back straight away to make you think he is busy.
Good luck! Let us know how it goes

Ye you most likely was, the dating game is hard haha all these unwritten rules. Remember he may not text back straight away to make you think he is busy.
Good luck! Let us know how it goes

It is SO hard. Exactly - so many unwritten rules and I think everyone gives more thought to how to play the dating game than they used to. And someone can just lose interest at any moment for no apparent reason which makes it all seem so much more delicate.