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Should I talk to him??

Hi, so I'm having a bit of a dilemma which I think is quite common but I'm not sure what is the best way of dealing it. So there is this guy in my sixth form who I think I like, I've known him for a while but have only recently felt like I like him more than a friend. I speak to him now and again but not properly. A couple of months ago he texted me and he sort of said 'hey how are you' etc. and we did have a conversation. However after a few late replies the convo ended. When I see him around sixth form we say hello, smile and sometimes have a bit of a chat but it always seems awkward when we're with our friends. The issue is, I don't know whether I should text him and say 'hey' without it being weird or out of my place. My friend said that I should but I don't know whether he might think it makes me seem desperate. I'd just love a chance to get to know him better because it could turn out that I don't actually like him because of his personality. A few of my friends are getting boyfriends now and it is amazing how happy they all are, and I just feel like I would be happier if I had someone like that (I'm aware this is super soppy omg :colondollar:) - not that I don't have anything to be happy about because I do realise how lucky I am and I don't want people thinking I'm ungrateful, but I've never had a 'proper' relationship so I don't know how to go about it. Plus I have been close to about three other guys in the past and they're super nice and interested for a while but then they just start leading me on which has sort of knocked my confidence when it comes to guys:/
But what should I do? Thank you so so much!!!:smile:
Original post by Anonymous
Hi, so I'm having a bit of a dilemma which I think is quite common but I'm not sure what is the best way of dealing it. So there is this guy in my sixth form who I think I like, I've known him for a while but have only recently felt like I like him more than a friend. I speak to him now and again but not properly. A couple of months ago he texted me and he sort of said 'hey how are you' etc. and we did have a conversation. However after a few late replies the convo ended. When I see him around sixth form we say hello, smile and sometimes have a bit of a chat but it always seems awkward when we're with our friends. The issue is, I don't know whether I should text him and say 'hey' without it being weird or out of my place. My friend said that I should but I don't know whether he might think it makes me seem desperate. I'd just love a chance to get to know him better because it could turn out that I don't actually like him because of his personality. A few of my friends are getting boyfriends now and it is amazing how happy they all are, and I just feel like I would be happier if I had someone like that (I'm aware this is super soppy omg :colondollar:) - not that I don't have anything to be happy about because I do realise how lucky I am and I don't want people thinking I'm ungrateful, but I've never had a 'proper' relationship so I don't know how to go about it. Plus I have been close to about three other guys in the past and they're super nice and interested for a while but then they just start leading me on which has sort of knocked my confidence when it comes to guys:/
But what should I do? Thank you so so much!!!:smile:


right...hmm. i kinda know what you mean but don't feel pressurized to get to know the guy just because your friends are happy in relationships and yeah i think you should text and say hi and what not like get that conversation going, ask about sixth form etc
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Original post by Anonymous
Hi, so I'm having a bit of a dilemma which I think is quite common but I'm not sure what is the best way of dealing it. So there is this guy in my sixth form who I think I like, I've known him for a while but have only recently felt like I like him more than a friend. I speak to him now and again but not properly. A couple of months ago he texted me and he sort of said 'hey how are you' etc. and we did have a conversation. However after a few late replies the convo ended. When I see him around sixth form we say hello, smile and sometimes have a bit of a chat but it always seems awkward when we're with our friends. The issue is, I don't know whether I should text him and say 'hey' without it being weird or out of my place. My friend said that I should but I don't know whether he might think it makes me seem desperate. I'd just love a chance to get to know him better because it could turn out that I don't actually like him because of his personality. A few of my friends are getting boyfriends now and it is amazing how happy they all are, and I just feel like I would be happier if I had someone like that (I'm aware this is super soppy omg :colondollar:) - not that I don't have anything to be happy about because I do realise how lucky I am and I don't want people thinking I'm ungrateful, but I've never had a 'proper' relationship so I don't know how to go about it. Plus I have been close to about three other guys in the past and they're super nice and interested for a while but then they just start leading me on which has sort of knocked my confidence when it comes to guys:/
But what should I do? Thank you so so much!!!:smile:


He will DEFINITELY NOT think that you're desperate if you text him. In fact, if he's contacted you in the past, it's just a continuation of the contact he started. If you're more shy in person, then texting or messaging is a much easier way to talk to him.

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