Do You Like People Who Flirt With Everyone?

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I am flirty with a lot of people. I wouldn't do it if I was in a relationship but it's part of my personality.

I'd rather be flirty than be unassertive.

Idk :wink:

Reply 21

Morrisseya

Original post by Cyanity

I am flirty with a lot of people. I wouldn't do it if I was in a relationship but it's part of my personality.

I'd rather be flirty than be unassertive.

Idk :wink:

You don't have to choose between being flirty or unassertive :tongue:

Reply 22

Cyanity

Original post by Morrisseya

You don't have to choose between being flirty or unassertive :tongue:

I think you missed the point. If being flirtacious is part of my personality then I wouldn't want to hide it. Hence why I said that :tongue:

Reply 23

Lil08

I never take guys like that seriously.

Reply 24

Safiya122

no, it's off putting and kinda shows their immaturity and maybe that they're not ready to be in a relationship

Reply 25

Morrisseya

Original post by Cyanity

I think you missed the point. If being flirtacious is part of my personality then I wouldn't want to hide it. Hence why I said that :tongue:

That's a non sequitur, though - being assertive isn't about showing your personality or hiding it; some people (e.g. a lot of introverts) are in fact naturally unassertive. A lot of people are also naturally aggressive, which is more than being assertive.

Reply 26

Morrisseya

Original post by Lil08

I never take guys like that seriously.

I definitely take them less seriously, yep :yep:

Safiya122

no, it's off putting and kinda shows their immaturity and maybe that they're not ready to be in a relationship

I think maybe some people (not all) flirt with everyone because they want to be in a relationship, but this could backfire, yeah.

Reply 27

Safiya122

Original post by Morrisseya

I definitely take them less seriously, yep :yep:

I think maybe some people (not all) flirt with everyone because they want to be in a relationship, but this could backfire, yeah.

I suppose so but it doesn't really look good and reduces chances of them even being in one

Reply 28

Morrisseya

Original post by Safiya122

I suppose so but it doesn't really look good and reduces chances of them even being in one

Yeah. I've also noticed that the kinds of people who tend to go for out and out "players" are often not the best relationship material themselves anyway.

Reply 29

Cyanity

Original post by Morrisseya

Ok maybe assertiveness isn't the correct term. Still nothing wrong with it though. Unless you're hurting someone else.

Reply 30

Clip

This is going to attract the attention of that guy who wrote like a hundred posts about some girl resting her feet on him.

Reply 31

Morrisseya

Original post by Clip

This is going to attract the attention of that guy who wrote like a hundred posts about some girl resting her feet on him.

Is that the guy who made a thread in Chat about wanting a girl to kick him in the balls and spit on him? :rofl:

Reply 32

Lyrical Prodigy

They come across quite attention seeking to me.

Reply 33

Morrisseya

Original post by Lyrical Prodigy

They come across quite attention seeking to me.

Same. I do like extroverted guys, but it's OTT IMO. Especially if the people he flirts with are taken.

Reply 34

Lyrical Prodigy

Original post by Morrisseya

Same. I do like extroverted guys, but it's OTT IMO. Especially if the people he flirts with are taken.

Yeah true, Don't get how one can still continue to flirt with someone when you know their taken... :erm:

Reply 35

Morrisseya

Original post by Lyrical Prodigy

Yeah true, Don't get how one can still continue to flirt with someone when you know their taken... :erm:

Lol yep, it's not as bad as the taken person flirting back IMO but still a bit out of order :s-smilie:

Reply 36

CatnipGlows

Original post by Morrisseya

How would you define "flirty" out of interst? :smile:

It depends a lot on the person, body language, situation etc. Like in some situations giving someone a couple of compliments is fine, but in others is really flirty..

Maybe giving out quite a few compliments to quite a few different people? That's probably what would turn me off