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Straight guys: Would you snuggle up with your guy friend?

Say, you're watching a movie and you're on the same bed, would it be acceptable to friendly snuggle up with you?

Or no? :o:

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No.

No...

It depends what you mean by the term 'acceptable'.

It certainly wouldn't be socially acceptable. Also, it depends what you mean by 'snuggle'. Simply lying next to a friend watching a movie is meaningless, but if you mean as in putting your arms on them etc. then that would not be just 'friendly' so, in terms of sexuality, it would not be 'acceptable' to do this with a same-sex friend and still expect to be considered 'heterosexual' in the eyes of society.

:smile:

Personally, no.

Snuggle? Yeah...No thanks.

Yup I second exactly what beyknowles has said.

Reply 7

Isambard Kingdom Brunel

95% of straight guys spoon their mates in bed.

Not sexually, just cuddling-wise.

Spoon and ball is best. :sexface:

Reply 8

Juichiro

Original post by Joyful_soul

Say, you're watching a movie and you're on the same bed, would it be acceptable to friendly snuggle up with you?

Or no? :o:

Snuggling up has sexual connotations, so nope.

Reply 9

RF_PineMarten

Only if I could be the outside spoon.

No, seriously, of course I wouldn't. No need for it and it's just weird.

Reply 10

Joyful_soul

Original post by RFowler

Only if I could be the outside spoon.

No, seriously, of course I wouldn't. No need for it and it's just weird.

Oh noes...

Reply 11

Asklepios

Only if sufficiently "loved up" :tongue:

Reply 12

Maid Marian

I can't imagine any guys doing this unless they had a serious bromance going on. :lol:

I'd do it with girls though. :redface:

Funny how it's more socially acceptable (afaik) for girls to do it than guys! :redface:

I was reading a story on the carpet to about three little girls the other week, and two of them were spooning with each, laying on the cushions :rofl:

And they kept swapping over to give the other a chance to be the inside spoon. I thought it was adorable. :colondollar:

Reply 13

Joyful_soul

Original post by Maid Marian

I can't imagine any guys doing this unless they had a serious bromance going on. :lol:

I'd do it with girls though. :redface:

Funny how it's more socially acceptable (afaik) for girls to do it than guys! :redface:

I was reading a story on the carpet to about three little girls the other week, and two of them were spooning with each, laying on the cushions :rofl:

And they kept swapping over to give the other a chance to be the inside spoon. I thought it was adorable. :colondollar:

Exactly, guys should be able to have this sweetness going on too. :cry:

Reply 14

Jimbo1234

Original post by Maid Marian

I can't imagine any guys doing this unless they had a serious bromance going on. :lol:

I'd do it with girls though. :redface:

Funny how it's more socially acceptable (afaik) for girls to do it than guys! :redface:

I was reading a story on the carpet to about three little girls the other week, and two of them were spooning with each, laying on the cushions :rofl:

And they kept swapping over to give the other a chance to be the inside spoon. I thought it was adorable. :colondollar:

That's odd.
It isn't acceptable for girls though - it is equally weird and begs to ask the question if you are on the fence.

Reply 15

Maid Marian

Original post by Jimbo1234

That's odd.
It isn't acceptable for girls though - it is equally weird and begs to ask the question if you are on the fence.

Not really, it's just cuddly.

No I wouldn't.

Original post by Maid Marian

Not really, it's just cuddly.

When you're very young; relatives/adults should fill in that gap (not other kids. That is odd and cries of the kids not getting enough attention at home)
When you're older; that is what relationships help with.

Doing it with friends somewhat shows the person is seriously lacking affection from those they should be receiving it from.