Finding a smart guy is definitely a massive turn on. Love a good intellectual conversation, but there are other important aspects like humour, personality etc. I would class myself as smart, but seems like there aren't any smart guys looking!
I love it when boys are really clever and its a major turn on, intelligence is soo attractive, what do you girls think?
Yep agreed. I dated a guy who wasn't very 'intelligent' before and i couldn't hack it i don't mean to sound nasty but I am quite 'intellectual' and it was difficult to find something 'deep' to talk about with him because he didn't have any views on things which i found interesting. and i felt intellectually superior, which isn't really a good way to start... My boyfriend is the smartest person i know and i look up to him because of that. so in summary yes its very important to me!
at the same time i wouldn't say no to something casual if someone was really attractive but not that intelligent. and there are intelligent people who i don't find attractive at all, so its not a blanket policy basically a good combination of intelligence and chemistry is my ideal date...
Finding a smart guy is definitely a massive turn on. Love a good intellectual conversation, but there are other important aspects like humour, personality etc. I would class myself as smart, but seems like there aren't any smart guys looking!
I struggle to survive without a solid intellectual conversation every so often..
I'm the same, it's so important to keep your mind stimulated, especially with interesting fun people! It's good to have a mix, definitely need someone who you can have a laugh with but talk about serious topics.
I'm the same, it's so important to keep your mind stimulated, especially with interesting fun people! It's good to have a mix, definitely need someone who you can have a laugh with but talk about serious topics.
It's great when you find a good balance of wit, general banter and sophistication in conversations. Hate having a great idea but seeing there is no-one around who'd appreciate it as such!
Some that you cannot discuss current events with, someone that is just not intellectual at all. Their main goal in life is to purchase the latest brand of trainers.
Some that you cannot discuss current events with, someone that is just not intellectual at all. Their main goal in life is to purchase the latest brand of trainers.
It's great when you find a good balance of wit, general banter and sophistication in conversations. Hate having a great idea but seeing there is no-one around who'd appreciate it as such!
Exactly! Those conversations are the best. I completely get what you mean, I can just be sat there thinking about something and want someone to be able to understand and comment on it, but there never is!