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BF says I'm fat

Lizza

He pinched a piece of my belly fat last night and said "You should really lose some weight!" How should I react?

Reply 1

guitarbob123

How tall are you and how much do you weigh?

Reply 2

McMurdo

11

Original post by Lizza

He pinched a piece of my belly fat last night and said "You should really lose some weight!" How should I react?

Did anything prompt such a remark? Had you said anything critical to him recently?

Reply 3

Lizza

OP

How tall are you and how much do you weigh?

5'3, 140lbs.

Reply 4

Olderandwiser23

16

That's not a very nice thing to say. :frown:

Lose weight if you want to, not because he said you should.

Reply 5

Lizza

OP

Did anything prompt such a remark? Had you said anything critical to him recently?

No. We never talked about weight issues before.

Reply 6

Viridiana

12

I'm 5'2.5'' and ive been with one person for 3 years. Then I was like 150 pounds I think, sorry im bad at imperial - 65 kg. A few months ago I dropped to my lowest, about 115 pounds. Now I gained about 10 again. and well I was never encouraged to lose weighr, and if so, just so that i'd be happy. If your bf is joking tell him that it hurts, if hes serious then well tell him that if youre going to lose weight it will be for you not for him

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Reply 7

Lizza

OP

I'm afraid he is not joking. That means he is not ok with my body. That sucks.

Reply 8

Professor Purple

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Original post by Viridiana

I'm 5'2.5'' and ive been with one person for 3 years. Then I was like 150 pounds I think, sorry im bad at imperial - 65 kg. A few months ago I dropped to my lowest, about 115 pounds. Now I gained about 10 again. and well I was never encouraged to lose weighr, and if so, just so that i'd be happy. If your bf is joking tell him that it hurts, if hes serious then well tell him that if youre going to lose weight it will be for you not for him

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Bit desperate to be adding the .5inch

Reply 9

Mimir

20

Tell him his penis is a bit too small.

Edit: Apparently this isn't a helpful response? Well, erm, say thank you for his opinion... :iiam:

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 10

C_tinie_D

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Original post by Professor Purple

Bit desperate to be adding the .5inch

I believe when you're 5'5 or under then every extra inch must be accounted for.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 11

DeadGirlsDance

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Original post by Lizza

I'm afraid he is not joking. That means he is not ok with my body. That sucks.

He probably isn't joking if you weigh this :/

Original post by Lizza

5'3, 140lbs.

Reply 12

Laura57

8

dump that bitch aint no one messing with ma lizza gurl

Reply 13

leedswest

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Original post by DeadGirlsDance

He probably isn't joking if you weigh this :/

I agree

Reply 14

arminb

3

Use a BMI calculator to see if you are fat if so then go on a diet and do some exercise. It is difficult to say how to react to your BF but I'd say the best thing is to do nothing. He probably wanted to be honest and give you some suggestion. I am really never attracted to fat girls (it's just me, some people are) and maybe your BF has the same feeling.
So if you really are fat and care enough to lose some weight for him then do it.