Regardless of what utopian feminists believe, in our society, there will always be rapists just as there will always be people who assault others and pedophiles. This 'rape culture' they talk of is not going to disappear just like that after preaching about it. Yes, we know rape is a disgusting and hideous crime but so is murder, so is pedophilia and assaults of any other nature can be as well.
Rather than pretend that we can somehow stop rapists through 'fighting the patriarchy' and so forth we should be focusing on a pragmatic solution to combat such disgusting and vile acts. You will come up with the constant line of 'victim blaming and why should we?'. We should because its the common sense approach to a problem rather than an idealistic one.
I'll give you two examples of the pragmatic approach.
Assault: To combat assault I can preach all day that other men should not pray on drunk, vulnerable men on the way home from nightclubs in an attempt to steal our wallets and our other valuables but I know there will always be people who assault others out there. It is a utopian belief to suggest we can rid the Earth of these people.
To combat this occurring I don't get wasted to a level that puts me in a vulnerable position, I don't put myself in a vulnerable position as I often stay with a group of trusted friends and I also ensure that I do not antagonise anyone on nights out leading to them, through revenge, carrying out an attack later on. I shouldn't have to do that but I do that because I know its in my best interests to do that. Its just a way of life and I can minimise risk simply by taking these actions.
Pedophilia: Parents combat this by ensuring they are supervising their children at all times. They constantly watch where they are and whilst some may say this is paranoia, they have a right to be in this world. It is a fact that pedophiles will exist so measures need to be taken to minimise risk to the children out there. Schools take measures to combat pedophiles as well.
Parents should not have to do these things, and neither should schools, in an ideal world pedophiles wouldn't exist, but we do not live in an ideal world, we live in a real one. That is never going to change.
Combatting Rape
Its fair to say, based on the above methods of combatting certain crimes by other groups in society, that females should also act in a responsible manner to limit the threat to themselves and avoid putting themselves in a vulnerable position. It is just dumb to say, 'I should be able to drink as much as I like and not get raped', because we already know that but we should be able to do a lot of things but we simply cannot because the fact is, we live in a world that is home to a lot of evil people. We must accept these exist.
1) Women should stop getting so wasted and putting themselves in a vulnerable position
2) Women should stop going home with random guys they do not know as the woman did in the Ched Evans incident
3) Women should stay in a group of friends and definitely go out and go home with friends - i.e. don't get into a taxi alone or walk home
4) Women should carry pepper spray and a rape alarm to combat these disgusting beings if it ever comes to it
To suggest women shouldn't have to take precautionary methods is daft because as pointed out above, we live in a realistic world, not an ideal one. I would love for us to live in a world free from murderers, pedophiles, violent people, rapists and all the other disgusting criminal acts there are but that simply isn't going to be the case. I think coming to terms with that fact shows a sign of maturity whereby you step out of this idealistic view of the world and you accept the world for what it truly is.
Every day, we take precautionary measures. I put things in a locker at the gym to stop it getting stolen. I shouldn't have to do so but I do because I know there are thieves about. It's just a simple fact of life. Of course the rapist or person committing the crime is always in the wrong but if you put yourself in a vulnerable position in the first place then you did not help matters at all and you gave that disgusting criminal an opportunity to take advantage of you. Limit those opportunities. Most rapists are opportunist scum that prey on the vulnerable for a reason. Just remember that.