My girlfriend "doesn't like orgasms"?

For a start, you should remove your "three times" system from your relationship. The moment she even implies she wants it to stop, and you don't. You ARE raping her. If she is "not enjoying" the orgasms, she isn't orgasming.

For a start, you should remove your "three times" system from your relationship. The moment she even implies she wants it to stop, and you don't. You ARE raping her. If she is "not enjoying" the orgasms, she isn't orgasming.

I do stop, we've talked about it a lot. There's been times when we stopped and she told me to go again, hence we brought in a safe word. I know what "no" means. She does enjoy them, she's very self conscious when I'm performing oral - her words, not mine.

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Your girlfriend is very weird sometimes when gives go down on me it can get a bit intense and isn't pleasureable, definately when they are not very good and use teeth etc by accident, Maybe you are doing something like that or maybe she is fake orgasming as I don't think anybody would turn down orgasms.

I swear feminists just want to ban all sex! LOL

Yea I don't think she fakes... She's confessed to also stopping when she masturbates.

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No that's not true.If she is saying 'no' that means stop. If she says no and you carry on YOU ARE RAPING HER.

I am a feminist. I like sex. Sex needs to be consentual on both parts and if I say stop I expect him to stop....I don't want to ban sex. I don't see anything wrong with sex...so your comment is irrelevant.

For a start, you should remove your "three times" system from your relationship. The moment she even implies she wants it to stop, and you don't. You ARE raping her. If she is "not enjoying" the orgasms, she isn't orgasming.

ipoop! I thought you'd quit TSR or something.

Anyway, my thinking is if something might have embarrassed her in the past one time when she was coming, maybe she made a strange sound or face and someone humiliated her?

I've slept with people who were embarrassed about what they did when they couldn't control themselves. just maybe try to reassure them.

What do you say to one of the comments above that sometimes it's just an instinct to stop because of intensity? I don't even think she says no, she normally pushes my head away or something, not that it makes a difference.

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Willy Willum? You can't ever quit TSR, you just fade away like a star
That's likely, now I have interrogate her and find out

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I wouldn't even bother responding.

I am exactly the same - I push his head away, or I put my hand there to block it. I don't really want it to stop, it's like a reflex movement for me.

Your safe word system three times is a very smart move in my opinion.

Anxiety can cause problems during sex. Maybe she should address this first and get help, which in turn will help her self consciousness in bed?

You better cut the **** out!! I'm warning you
I know, I'm a genius and it's still very funny to me when all of the sudden she blurts out Spongebob in quick successions

Anxiety can cause problems during sex. Maybe she should address this first and get help, which in turn will help her self consciousness in bed?

OP don't listen to this be a man and take control just hold her down whilst she orgasms and call her a slut they love that