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Why are girls allowed to fantasize about being raped

But if males fantasize about rape it means they are automatically secret rapists and dangerous predators?

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Since when do girls fantasize about rape?
Wat
I laughed, get a grip op
Because men are the biggest rapists. Women are not on the other hand.

I'm also wary of guys who watch rape porn it's a sign if you will that they are closet psychos.



Original post by blackened_sky
Since when do girls fantasize about rape?



I do. And plenty of other women do too. It's not a violent sort of brutal rape more of a "Have your way with me" sort of thing.
:lolwut: smh.
My ex girlfriend has this fantasy...I was not game.

Still baffles me why anyone would fantasize about this. Ive been raped by a woman. I remember snippets of it and it was less than pleasant.
Original post by Tolly Mune

I do. And plenty of other women do too. It's not a violent sort of brutal rape more of a "Have your way with me" sort of thing.


If you want it.. it's not rape?
Original post by Sam Walters
My ex girlfriend has this fantasy...I was not game.

Still baffles me why anyone would fantasize about this. Ive been raped by a woman. I remember snippets of it and it was less than pleasant.



male rape is not real
watch out, the thought police are about....
Reply 10
Original post by Tolly Mune
male rape is not real


Just...what... :nothing:
Reply 11
It's true there was a study showing a large percentage of women fantasize rape.
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It's the patriarchal rape culture playing subconscious mind games on these poor oppressed women.
:lolwut:
Reply 14
Why is this on tsr?


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Reply 15
When a girl has a 'rape fantasy' she is actually having a fantasy about a loss of control and domination within an ultimatley safe environment, perhaps with a stranger but more than likely with a partner.

They are not having a fantasy about the violent, dangerous, emotionally destroying encounter that is actual rape.


It's a fairly common fantasy from what I've read.
Original post by Infan2a
Just...what... :nothing:


They were banned. Good show TSR. It is very real. Not nice either.
Original post by blackened_sky
Since when do girls fantasize about rape?


lmao
Original post by Reue
When a girl has a 'rape fantasy' she is actually having a fantasy about a loss of control and domination within an ultimatley safe environment, perhaps with a stranger but more than likely with a partner.

They are not having a fantasy about the violent, dangerous, emotionally destroying encounter that is actual rape.


It's a fairly common fantasy from what I've read.

"Ultimately safe" depends on the person. Some people just like the idealised idea of being raped. Those people are few and far between, I am led to believe, but they do exist. I emphasise the distinction between "idealised idea" and "idea" with another example: some people might fantasise about two-foot-long penises, but in reality I imagine it's just impractical. Some people might fantasise about being raped, but in reality it's traumatic and generally bad. It's just one of those things that reality doesn't match up to expectation on.
Original post by Reue
When a girl has a 'rape fantasy' she is actually having a fantasy about a loss of control and domination within an ultimatley safe environment, perhaps with a stranger but more than likely with a partner.

They are not having a fantasy about the violent, dangerous, emotionally destroying encounter that is actual rape.


It's a fairly common fantasy from what I've read.


So sad that people actually have to have this spelled out to them.

And FYI, you can fantasize about whatever the hell you like, if you'd seen what goes on in my head you'd probably just decide life wasn't worth living.

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