Quite honestly, this is ridiculous. If you don't want a child then don't get yourself pregnant. People who have children young may not be considered as wasting their lives, but they will struggle a lot more financially and educationally wise. I know from witnessing the struggles a friend of mine went through off a one-night stand that left her as a single mother. Noone is forced to have children, and they aren't forced to be in a relationship. You can be just as happy in a relationship and/or have a child, as you could be with neither