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People having babies for the sake of having babies

I feel as if people stopped having babies more and more would stop, I know myself that I dont want babies must il have one for the sake of society. Dont get me wrong its not like I dont want kids its just that their cute and everything till age 15 when they start having bfs/gfs and they start to disrespect you n annoy

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Chill. Society doesn't expect you to have babies.
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if you don't want a baby, don't get a baby. Simple as that.
So basically what you just said is that you like babies, just not adolescents.

Ok?
Original post by Olympiad
if you don't want a baby, don't get a baby. Simple as that.


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Original post by WeedCanKill
So basically what you just said is that you like babies, just not adolescents.

Ok?


Not exactly

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Original post by Olympiad
if you don't want a baby, don't get a baby. Simple as that.


I do but when my baby becomes a teen - I dont -

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Original post by daisychain_
Chill. Society doesn't expect you to have babies.


U know that is not true my friends dad is 30 something he has no kid nor wife,they feel sorry for him

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Oh dear, my bad!

Original post by AsandaLFC
I do but when my baby becomes a teen - I dont -

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Then don't have the baby! You can't just dump them when they are older, babies are human you know.
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Original post by Olympiad
if you don't want a baby, don't get a baby. Simple as that.


:rofl:

As if you just pick them up from Sainsburys!
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Original post by Zorg
:ROLF:

As if you just pick them up from Sainsburys!


yolo
Original post by AsandaLFC
U know that is not true my friends dad is 30 something he has no kid nor wife,they feel sorry for him

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Maybe its because he doesn't have a wife, society expects people to be in relationships (especially as they get older)
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Original post by AsandaLFC
U know that is not true my friends dad is 30 something he has no kid nor wife,they feel sorry for him

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How can he be a dad if he has no kids?
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People tend to have children for themselves - I think it's rather selfish really.
Original post by AsandaLFC
I feel as if people stopped having babies more and more would stop, I know myself that I dont want babies must il have one for the sake of society. Dont get me wrong its not like I dont want kids its just that their cute and everything till age 15 when they start having bfs/gfs and they start to disrespect you n annoy

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Raise them well and they won't disrespect you when they hit 15/16. I think ethnic groups have better parenting than the english...like they swear and do what they want
Original post by daisychain_
Chill. Society doesn't expect you to have babies.



But society will fund it.
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Original post by bittr n swt
Raise them well and they won't disrespect you when they hit 15/16. I think ethnic groups have better parenting than the english...like they swear and do what they want


Emotionally separating from your parents around 15-16 years old is a normal part of the developmental process. It's true that, in some cultures, children of that age are much more respectful than in others, but I would think that most teens are irritating at that age for normal developmental reasons.
Original post by Sulpha
I'm sorry, but that is one of the most horrendously incorrect things I've ever seen written down.

You must be like 16 ?


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Quite honestly, this is ridiculous. If you don't want a child then don't get yourself pregnant. People who have children young may not be considered as wasting their lives, but they will struggle a lot more financially and educationally wise. I know from witnessing the struggles a friend of mine went through off a one-night stand that left her as a single mother. Noone is forced to have children, and they aren't forced to be in a relationship. You can be just as happy in a relationship and/or have a child, as you could be with neither
Original post by Sulpha
If you're any older then you need to make more friends and experience how the world works a bit more.


Thank you for the life advice, random stranger on the internet.

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