And if anyone decides to do anything about this like actually trying to sort it out I will deny everything. I DO NOT need people trying to resurface things from the past.
Made the post anon because I'm gonna tell people how it feels.
(Details were correct at the time of all of this)
Background - living with grandparents because of court order.
Extra info - I have autism and ADHD
Right well I'm not going into much detail even though I can remember even after 8 years every small detail.
These are things I delt and are still dealing with.
Parental abuse 'side/after effects'
Physical -
Cuts, bruises, sprains.
Mental -
Anxiety, depression, stress related epilepsy.
To list a few.
I have had 'recorded depression' since I was 6 as my school found me self harming even then.
This self harm consisted of running my nails down my face till I bled.
It continued until I was 12-13, the whole depression and self harm. I ended up stopping self harm at 17.
When I was 8 onwards I had attempted to kill myself multiple times, even to the point of writing a will and poisoning myself or jumping into the road. I even remember coming close to drowning.
These attempts stopped after I tried to kill myself using poison for the first time, I didn't pay attention to how long it would take and ended up lying on the floor for hours before being dealt with and taken into hospital.
That was when I was about 14.
The more mental side of the abuse came when I was beaten into submission, I can clearly remember cowering in my room with the lights off trying to hide while they stood there in the doorway, one restraining the other.
I'm afraid of nothing now but the phycological scar remains that if I'm in a dark room the only way to feel safe is to cover my ass with my hands or sit down or be against a wall so I don't get beaten.
Coming out of all of it after living there almost all my life.
I fear no one and stand up to authority.
My response to being hit was to get physically stronger.
My response to verbal abuse was to sharpen my mind.
To lose myself within the internet as a coping stategy means I developed split personalities.
I am bipolar and highly strung enough I've been on multiple meds to try and calm me down.
I don't care about others emotions and normally only care about people based on their intellectual worth.
I learnt how to control the people who controlled me, I am good at making almost any situation work in my favour as I can play people.
I will hurt people before risking getting hurt, even in relationships. (Didn't stop me have a girlfriend for 8 years[even if I was the one breaking up so much])
I'm a person now who accepts most people, if they are gay or coloured or not. I went through so much I can't even give details here. But now as long as a person wants to be accepted for being them it's fine.
The moment someone plans to get rid of someones human rights I will hate the person enforcing that.
Sure, I'll make a shoddy lil plaqueard and march along you for your rights. But the moment you try to make others believe in what you do.
Well, we have a problem.
But yeah I'm screwed mentally and physically because of parental abuse.
So not very fun...