I Like Him But He's 31...

Not ruling anything in or out, but I can tell you from long experience that this statement is probably something that exists only in your mind, and not in reality.

He's a feminist (not why I like him, but very much one).*

*let the Games begin

**also, see my reply to Plumstone.

Kill me now.

Thank you Do you mind if I ask how old you and your bf are? Did he chase first or did you?

I might do... we're already on pretty good terms though, so I'm not sure how to flirt (I can be a bit too full on, which guys my age go crazy for but I'm not sure if a mature guy like him would appreciate )

I think that's probably true, he's definitely one of those guys who prioritises a woman's mind, though (feminist, used to work at the Guardian, etc.) I'm not stupid, but I'm far from as accomplished as the women he knows

Men don't care about accomplishments. Men care about youth & beauty. You can easily outcompete women 10+ years older.

I was 17 and he was 29 when we first met. It was definitely a case of immediate mutual interest; I asked him to dance, we chatted and danced, then he asked me out the following week. We were both kind of chasing each other! But I found out how old he was quite a long time before he knew how old I was and I deliberately made it sound like I was older, implied that I was at uni rather than college, etc, in order to hide my age from him....

Now I'm almost 21 and he's 33 and we'll be celebrating our fourth anniversary in January

Now, as for your situation, provided that you're still intelligent and interesting, then there is no reason why you should be any less attractive than any other women, however "experienced" they are. Men all find confidence attractive, so I would say, rather than worrying about whether you're too young, just give it a go and see what happens!