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25 and still a virgin

Hey guys,

So, as the title says, I'm 25 and still a virgin male. I just want to lose it; anyone 'll do. Could i just go on tinder, or something, and pick all the ugly chics, and hope they'll accept me?

Thanks.
no
Reply 2
Find a different hobby i'd say.
Just now I replied to a thread where the OP feared what would happen if everyone knew he lost his virginity to an escort. So think twice
Lower your standards
Original post by Anonymous
Hey guys,

So, as the title says, I'm 25 and still a virgin male. I just want to lose it; anyone 'll do. Could i just go on tinder, or something, and pick all the ugly chics, and hope they'll accept me?

Thanks.


Escort time.
Reply 6
Yeah pay upwards of 100 pounds and get yourself a decent escort, not that I have any experience of using one.
Original post by Anonymous
Hey guys,

So, as the title says, I'm 25 and still a virgin male. I just want to lose it; anyone 'll do. Could i just go on tinder, or something, and pick all the ugly chics, and hope they'll accept me?

Thanks.


I am 24, same as you! You will find someone you love and care, just be patient! You want to make your first time as memorable as possible. Good luck!!! Plus, there is nothing wrong or embarrassing about being a virgin!!!!!
Original post by Anonymous
Hey guys,

So, as the title says, I'm 25 and still a virgin male. I just want to lose it; anyone 'll do. Could i just go on tinder, or something, and pick all the ugly chics, and hope they'll accept me?

Thanks.


I'm 23 and still a virgin (due to social anxiety) and there are somedays when I think to myself just get it out the way but most of the time I think I'll just wait until I'm in a relationship.

It's up to you but being in the same boat I would say just wait. Just think if you wasn't a virgin but you met a woman who was, would you be put off? No you probably wouldn't. You may even like it as they obviously trust you and want to be with you enough to lose it. So maybe start by building some kind of relationship with a woman you like.
Original post by 09001904
I am 24, same as you! You will find someone you love and care, just be patient! You want to make your first time as memorable as possible.



I just want there to be a first time. I can worry about making it memorable afterwards.

Original post by 09001904
there is nothing wrong or embarrassing about being a virgin


Yes there is.
Even the ugly chicks get a lot of matches

I have to say I admire your strength for still being a virgin at 25.. That's so hard I would cry

Anyways if you really wanna lose it then escort but I don't recommend it
I lost it very recently (this summer holiday) to a girl my cousin practically picked up for me - a friend of a friend of his girlfriend. I'd honestly stay a virgin if it wasn't for him. I was 20 and he was 18 and the girl were 18 - I finished my first year at Warwick and they only just completed their A levels. Anyway, he is much better looking than me and has probably twice as much confidence. I don't know to what extent this whole situation was a planned set up or to what extent it was a fortunate set of circumstances and events but in the aftermath of our second party (third time I saw this girl in general) we had sex.

Now here's the most important part. Before I really lost my virginity I'd tell made up stories to friends. I think if you're a virgin, most people can tell that you're a virgin - especially in intimate social situations etc.

Also, I think that it's okay to be a virgin to the age of 20. One Germanic tribe made up of disciplined ferocious warriors (modern day would-be-gamers) thought it was immoral and deviant for men to have sex before 20 because it corrupted them. To be honest I'd agree to some extent. After 20 you just get weird and it's REALLY HARD for relationship life in general.
Original post by Melancholic Mill
I lost it very recently (this summer holiday) to a girl my cousin practically picked up for me - a friend of a friend of his girlfriend. I'd honestly stay a virgin if it wasn't for him. I was 20 and he was 18 and the girl were 18 - I finished my first year at Warwick and they only just completed their A levels. Anyway, he is much better looking than me and has probably twice as much confidence. I don't know to what extent this whole situation was a planned set up or to what extent it was a fortunate set of circumstances and events but in the aftermath of our second party (third time I saw this girl in general) we had sex.

Now here's the most important part. Before I really lost my virginity I'd tell made up stories to friends. I think if you're a virgin, most people can tell that you're a virgin - especially in intimate social situations etc.

Also, I think that it's okay to be a virgin to the age of 20. One Germanic tribe made up of disciplined ferocious warriors (modern day would-be-gamers) thought it was immoral and deviant for men to have sex before 20 because it corrupted them. To be honest I'd agree to some extent. After 20 you just get weird and it's REALLY HARD for relationship life in general.


Why after 20 would you get weird and hard for a relationship. This sound silly to me.

Loads of people wait until their married (not many I know). Celebs like Jessica Simpson, Beyoncé and Tina Fey waited until marriage. Are they weird.
Original post by ChaoticButterfly
Yes there is.


Such as?
Original post by The Socktor
Such as?


Well I feel embarrassed about it. So it's embarrassing. No amount of people telling me it isn't will change that.
Original post by ChaoticButterfly
Well I feel embarrassed about it. So it's embarrassing. No amount of people telling me it isn't will change that.


Again, why?
Don't think about it too much lol. Or at all.
thinking about it, and wanting for it to deeply happen causes it to not happen because you're just putting so much pressure on yourself.

in due time, you'll find a lovely lass who'll want to have sex with you and stay with you.

i don't think you should feel embarrassed, but I do understand why.
As a man it is your duty to initiate and lead all the way to sex.

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