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Are there any girls 23+ who are virgins but NOT out of choice?

this is from a thread I saw earlier about a 23 year old virgin, but who had apparently remained so out of choice.

im wondering if there is anyone left out there who is a virgin at my age, simply because no guy has ever approached them or in doing so they've been rejected.

I know its harder for men to get casual sex, so this thread isn't for you.

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I expect so: pretty sure I know a few. Being fat and learned helplessness are the traits that jump out at me which they share.

Do you take "choice" to include social anxiety? If a girl can't socialise, is this to be called a choice (since it can be overcome)? Because there are a lot of socially anxious, pathologically quiet girls out there who rarely leave the house. This is because plenty of girls are brought up being praised for being demure, meek patients, rather than active agents. The problem is this creates a self-selecting sample: you never see these girls, so you're unaware of their existence.

It is complicated by the fact that it seems once you're an involuntary celibate past a certain age where the flush of teenage hormones has died away, you are probably going to quickly become a voluntary celibate. Apart from the hormonal stability, you suddenly have a job to hold down and a thousand and one more immediate responsibilities to address. This has definitely happened with the virgins I know who are in their mid- or late twenties.

Inb4 the thread gets hijacked with tedious debates about religious parents stopping their daughters from dating.
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Of course there will be. Despite the fact that possibly easier for girls to call up random sex, anyone with an ounce of wit want a relationship, or at least a caring partner. And unless your in the attractive set physically and/or personality wise it is quite feasible to reach your 20s without find this.
Gentlemen: Never marry a non-virgin.

#NoHymenNoDiamond :biggrin:
Original post by scrotgrot
I expect so: pretty sure I know a few. Being fat and learned helplessness are the traits that jump out at me which they share.

Do you take "choice" to include social anxiety? If a girl can't socialise, is this to be called a choice (since it can be overcome)? Because there are a lot of socially anxious, pathologically quiet girls out there who rarely leave the house. This is because plenty of girls are brought up being praised for being demure, meek patients, rather than active agents. The problem is this creates a self-selecting sample: you never see these girls, so you're unaware of their existence.

It is complicated by the fact that it seems once you're an involuntary celibate past a certain age where the flush of teenage hormones has died away, you are probably going to quickly become a voluntary celibate. Apart from the hormonal stability, you suddenly have a job to hold down and a thousand and one more immediate responsibilities to address. This has definitely happened with the virgins I know who are in their mid- or late twenties.

Inb4 the thread gets hijacked with tedious debates about religious parents stopping their daughters from dating.


lovely.
so far only two men have posted saying that there are virgins my age, but ive yet to see proof.
Original post by MarriageSucks
Gentlemen: Never marry a non-virgin.

#NoHymenNoDiamond :biggrin:


What bull crap. I thought that you didn't want to get married anyway.
It is possible to keep your hymen intact without being a virgin. *cough*
So lol if you believe that as a rule.
inb4 "im virgin by choice"

I have no sympathy for virgins like you if you blame guys for not approaching you. Life isn't full of sunshine and roses, do the work, ask guys out and if you get rejected again and again then complain.

You made an AMA thread saying you're 23 year old virgin, I had no sympathy for you then and I don't now.
Original post by bittr n swt
I have no sympathy for virgins like you if you blame guys for not approaching you. Life isn't full of sunshine and roses, do the work, ask guys out and if you get rejected again and again then complain.

You made an AMA thread saying you're 23 year old virgin, I had no sympathy for you then and I don't now.

any woman will get approached lol. even if they're 0/10
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I wont be surprised if here at TSR I find 50 year old virgins.
Original post by Enoxial
I wont be surprised if here at TSR I find 50 year old virgins.

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speak for yourself
Original post by bittr n swt
I have no sympathy for virgins like you if you blame guys for not approaching you. Life isn't full of sunshine and roses, do the work, ask guys out and if you get rejected again and again then complain.

You made an AMA thread saying you're 23 year old virgin, I had no sympathy for you then and I don't now.

I have been rejected.
I have no sympathy for you either, from all your posts youre just a troll.
Original post by sherlockfan
I have been rejected.
I have no sympathy for you either, from all your posts youre just a troll.

you would have to go out of your way to still be a virgin at 23
Original post by gonnagetrejected
you would have to go out of your way to still be a virgin at 23


But I havent gone out of my way, thats the whole point of this thread, its for people who are virgins not out of choice.
Original post by sherlockfan
But I havent gone out of my way, thats the whole point of this thread, its for people who are virgins not out of choice.

pics?
Original post by gonnagetrejected
pics?


No. You'll just have to take my word for it.
Original post by sherlockfan
But I havent gone out of my way, thats the whole point of this thread, its for people who are virgins not out of choice.


Have you tried approaching guys? Being wanted makes people feel nice, and it's a nice change for a lassie to chase a guy than the other way around.

Are you a shy person? :smile:
Original post by Gjaykay
Have you tried approaching guys? Being wanted makes people feel nice, and it's a nice change for a lassie to chase a guy than the other way around.

Are you a shy person? :smile:

Yes I have.
They couldn't have treated me worse if I was a piece of muck on their shoe.
Original post by sherlockfan
I have been rejected.
I have no sympathy for you either, from all your posts youre just a troll.


How many times have you been rejected?

I'm not a troll, just because you don't agree with my views doesn't make me a troll. Using that silly logic you're a troll.
Original post by bittr n swt
How many times have you been rejected?

I'm not a troll, just because you don't agree with my views doesn't make me a troll. Using that silly logic you're a troll.


Im not responding to you. I havent read a single post of yours on tsr that isn't nasty.

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