This discussion is now closed.

Check out other Related discussions

How to get a bf

Im almost 21 and still have not had a proper bf it seems IMPOSSIBLE! I don't go clubbing or out at night and am at college with mainly girls. I just feel like a loser, well I am lol but is there something wrong do you think? Im not good looking but I don't think im that ugly either (though I did get rated the lowest score of 4.9 for looks at college, it was this game we played) Anyway even girls who people would class as 'ugly' have boyfriends :confused:

As for my personality I just appear plain and quiet to people so do you think thats the reason? The pressure is building up Im becomming desperate lol, not because I need one but because I feel I need the experience etc.

Scroll to see replies

Reply 1

username47781

No there's nothing wrong, people older than you have never had a partner, don't let it bruise you, perhaps join a club of your interest, do you have a part time job, if not maybe try and get one, you can meet people there.

Reply 2

Wangers

be yourself, add a dash of humour and serve.

good luck

Wangers

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

become incredibly good at giving oral?

Reply 4

Anonymous #3

walk up to any guy you like and just lock lips and grab his dik, if hes not gay he'll love it.

Reply 5

G4ry

Anonymous

walk up to any guy you like and just lock lips and grab his dik, if hes not gay he'll love it.

Isn't that harassment?

If some guy was told to do that to any girl i'm sure the result would be quite contrary and i think the same rule holds for both genders.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

G4ry

Isn't that harassment?

If some guy was told to do that to any girl i'm sure the result would be quite contrary and i think the same rule holds for both genders.

He was joking but yea people would go mad if was the other way around :p:

Reply 7

sr4470

G4ry

Isn't that harassment?

If some guy was told to do that to any girl i'm sure the result would be quite contrary and i think the same rule holds for both genders.

Actually its called indecent assault.

Reply 8

dyslexic_banana

Anonymous

4.9 is average, so perhaps you shouldn't worry, on that score (excuse the pun). Maybe you should try clubbing, the odd time? As a woman, I guarantee you'll have several offers, for each night you go clubbing; far more, if all you're after is sex.

Reply 9

username47781

dyslexic_banana

She's not looking for sex, she wants a boyfriend.

Reply 10

dyslexic_banana

She talks of not needing "one", but of needing "the experience", though; hard to interpret.....

Reply 11

mr_person

Just become sexier. Its pretty easy for any girl to become attractive enough to attract a guy. Guys are completely conned by make-up, clothes, and laughing at their awful jokes.

Reply 12

Anonymous #4

imo, clubbing isn't the best place to start a relationship from especially when you get into your 20s. If you want a good guy then imo it's best to go through a friend of a friend and as it'll be your first relationship it's best if it's someone decent because at that age and having a first relationship you could get hurt if you go out with a sleaze from a club.

Reply 13

Riddy

Post a pic, tis the only way we can judge the reason really, looks wise anyway

Reply 14

Talon

Its funny. You can go into the square a uni and you know that a good percentage of the people around you are looking for relationship partners, yet they all seem to fail at it...

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

dyslexic_banana

She talks of not needing "one", but of needing "the experience", though; hard to interpret.....

I meant the experience of having a bf, I take it the more you have the more comfortable you are with a relationship.

Thanks for the replies

Reply 16

Talon

Not necessarily. The first one you have might be all you need or you might need 50...

Also if you have 5 bfs in a row that screw you over would you be more comfortable with a relationship? :smile:

.

Are you saying you only want a bf for the experience?

Reply 17

Creative02

lol talk to strangers

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

Talon

Not necessarily. The first one you have might be all you need or you might need 50...

Also if you have 5 bfs in a row that screw you over would you be more comfortable with a relationship? :smile:

.

Are you saying you only want a bf for the experience?