Dilemma - Confused about my feelings

As a young bisexual I think that the best thing to remember that what you are feeling is completely normal, some idiots will tell you bisexuality is a myth but it is anything but. When I first realised I was Bi I found myself a really great group of people in my community and talking with them made me so much more at ease.

I first came out to my current partner followed by my close friends and everyone seemed okay with it, including one of my best friends who came out with me! The best advice I can give you is to find yourself a good group of LGBT individuals, look for local societies/ awareness groups and if you feel up to it go to one of the major pride events.

In terms of coming out, I did it subtly (ordered a gay pride flag and hung it in my room).

Best of luck, hopefully you will meet some amazing people!

I know! Thats what annoys me and it make it hard to find somewhere you can post/go to talk about these sorts of things. As you can't just have a normal conversation! I might do that, does seem like a good idea i have spoken to him about my situation and he has helped me.

Thats great news! My issue is my granddad, some people in my family are a bit homophobic. My uncle is fine as my aunties brother is gay. i don't know i don't want to make a rushed decision and then regret it forever! (telling people i mean) I think i may have some people that i can talk too my best friend from school came out las month and i will probably talk to him about it as he trusted me and came to me for advise when he was in this sort of situation!

Thats a very good way of doing it haha!

Thanks for the tips.

older people will always be difficult as they weren't socialised to accept LGBT stuff, don't have much experience of older people in my family being homophobic as they are all dead!
best wishes and good luck

How old are you OP if you don't mind.

No sure sorry forgot to include it!

I'm 19. 20 in august

But before that, are your family the conservative type? Religious?

Thanks! There are some good people here, i did post it again could you delete it for me? I didn't know you closed and the reopened posts! sorry

That's why the thread was labelled "closed for cleanup"

The other one's been removed for you.

Do you think he can strike a conversation with your granddad? Perhaps that could really help in formulating a good relationship with him.

I doubt it. My granddad is a very upfront person. He will tell you what he thinks and you just have to deal with it, he likes to drink also which doesn't help.

They would probably just argue

I'm pretty upfront when I'm dealing with an upfront person ironically and it's quite fun seeing them argue

If he's an upfront person as well, then I don't think there's any problem?