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Can't get a Girl :( What. So. Ever.

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Original post by Blaq_widow
My point was that it's not abnormal, you'd have to be pretty hot for a girl to be blatantly eye-balling you enough for you to notice. I can almost guarantee it that some girls have found you attractive.

How do you interact with women?


In English :wink: Sorry :smile: I dunno, I mean I talk to the ones I know, Try to catch the eyes of the ones I want to get to know....
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
In English :wink: Sorry :smile: I dunno, I mean I talk to the ones I know, Try to catch the eyes of the ones I want to get to know....


It's pretty plain English :confused:

Ok 'trying to catch someone's eye' to me means not doing anything and hoping to get noticed. You must do something. Do you give flirtatious eye contact? Smile? Maybe even talk to them (and not just the girls you know)?
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
Just to get some attention would be nice :smile: Yeah know what you mean, make the occassional trip to London.


Even wanting attention though isn't going to quite work because they'll see you, not think they're worthy, freak out and not give you any attention even if they like how you look. Best you can do outside of moving to London is find foreign women as they tend to have more confidence (and looks).
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
6ft 1.5" (That half an inch is important)


Well then you've got no problems aesthetically. It must be something else you're doing. Maybe it's down to how you approach girls (if you do) and how you try to hold a conversation?

It could also be down to your confidence. If you have low self-esteem, it could be that when you approach girls you give off that vibe, and also that you doubt yourself too much to actually pursue any sort of relationship with them?
Original post by Blaq_widow
It's pretty plain English :confused:

Ok 'trying to catch someone's eye' to me means not doing anything and hoping to get noticed. You must do something. Do you give flirtatious eye contact? Smile? Maybe even talk to them (and not just the girls you know)?


Sorry, My bad, Sarcasm.... Well, I'm always smiling, Flirtatious Eye contact?? Elaborate on that one if you'd be so gracious...
Original post by geoking
Even wanting attention though isn't going to quite work because they'll see you, not think they're worthy, freak out and not give you any attention even if they like how you look. Best you can do outside of moving to London is find foreign women as they tend to have more confidence (and looks).


This, this is true comedy.... Foregin women in my experience have enough confidence to go for the guys above me though :s-smilie:
Original post by CatnipGlows
Well then you've got no problems aesthetically. It must be something else you're doing. Maybe it's down to how you approach girls (if you do) and how you try to hold a conversation?

It could also be down to your confidence. If you have low self-esteem, it could be that when you approach girls you give off that vibe, and also that you doubt yourself too much to actually pursue any sort of relationship with them?


Just freeballing a thought here, If all you needed was to be above 6ft, Life would be so much easier....

Yeah I know what you mean, Think that is my problem.... Also never know when the right time to approach one out in the wild is...
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
Sorry, My bad, Sarcasm.... Well, I'm always smiling, Flirtatious Eye contact?? Elaborate on that one if you'd be so gracious...


Haha went over my head.

It's hard to describe how to do it but I can always tell from the way a guy looks at me whether or not he fancies me...like he's kind of subtly checking you out kinda thing >>> :sexface:

But obviously you don't just stand and make sexy eyes either. Most girls want to be with a guy who is fun, hence the confident and cheeky chappies tend to be the most successful. Tease, be playful and be the kind of guy people want to be around.
Original post by Blaq_widow
Haha went over my head.

It's hard to describe how to do it but I can always tell from the way a guy looks at me whether or not he fancies me...like he's kind of subtly checking you out kinda thing >>> :sexface:

But obviously you don't just stand and make sexy eyes either. Most girls want to be with a guy who is fun, hence the confident and cheeky chappies tend to be the most successful. Tease, be playful and be the kind of guy people want to be around.


Ahaha quite alright :smile:

Guess that's just a thing you don't know your doing then :frown:

Got ya... Thanks :smile:
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
Ahhh cool dude, Yeah why the hell not :smile: Blimey you got enough of em :smile: Be sure to check them out!


Please be my wingman when I am in london too.
Original post by r_u_jelly
Please be my wingman when I am in london too.


Hope that's for him :smile: I'd be about as usefull as spanner.
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
Sympathy thread for my lonely self :smile:

Not even kidding, Whether it's a relationship/Freind/Even getting noticed...I can not get ANY attention from the opposite sex..

It sucks the big one


I know the feeling. It seems like the world created men like ourselves that somehow repel girls rather than attract them. I haven't come up with a solution yet, however it is always nice to know that you're not alone! However never stop trying old chap!
Same here, although I'm not really complaining since I don't get out that much hehe
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
This, this is true comedy.... Foregin women in my experience have enough confidence to go for the guys above me though :s-smilie:

It's true though. If you are good looking, why would a small fat little blob think they would have a shot with you? Answer is: they don't.
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
Just freeballing a thought here, If all you needed was to be above 6ft, Life would be so much easier....

Yeah I know what you mean, Think that is my problem.... Also never know when the right time to approach one out in the wild is...


Being 6ft + and attractive is always a bonus.

Well maybe you need to try and work on your self esteem, and stop basing it on your progress with women? As soon as you feel more confident, little things about you will change. Things you might not notice, but might make a difference when approaching girls.
Original post by CatnipGlows
Being 6ft + and attractive is always a bonus.

Well maybe you need to try and work on your self esteem, and stop basing it on your progress with women? As soon as you feel more confident, little things about you will change. Things you might not notice, but might make a difference when approaching girls.


Got the 6ft at least :smile: Yeah I see your point, Something that needs to be worked on definitley... Thankyou :rolleyes:

For the record, I like your Profile Picture :smile:
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
Got the 6ft at least :smile: Yeah I see your point, Something that needs to be worked on definitley... Thankyou :rolleyes:

For the record, I like your Profile Picture :smile:


Trust me you're not bad looking, the only thing that's holding you back is your self esteem :smile:

Thank you :colondollar:
lmao the advice given on this website is such a load of tosh.
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If it's you on the pic...ever thought you may actually be too attractive?
Original post by Ryan_Anthony_
Sympathy thread for my lonely self :smile:

Not even kidding, Whether it's a relationship/Freind/Even getting noticed...I can not get ANY attention from the opposite sex..

It sucks the big one


how many new girls do you meet, socialise and flirt with on a weekly basis?

Are you attractive? If not why not?

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