How do I get a muslim girl to be my GF(not like other threads)

(okay development from last post, I like this girl now.)
(not like other muslim girl threads, as this girl likes me)

She is muslim, and she have never had a BF becuase of it. (respectable.)
I am muslim too.
I know she likes me, but she suppresses her feelings!!!!!

- She does does not outright flirt. But she argues with me over everything. And our friends have seen this. They have both seen the high level of passion. (they even mention this, and she blushes)
- When we revise as a group, my friends say she is constantly looking up at me. I have caught her once of twice.
- she will wake me up in the morning early so we can spend the of the day together.
- she was really jealous of this girl, I used to like.

- if we ever got in the relationship I would never too her. I just want her companionship.

So what can I do, I am starting to like her very much.
This is killing me inside.
(would also like some advice from muslims too please)

It depends, how devout is she? I was in a similar situation with a not-so-devout muslim girl, the type that date guys outside of their religion. If she's at the headscarf level then it might be the long-winded, traditional supervised dating for you.

It's like Nike trainers, just do it

I agree, OP you should just Marry her lol

Ditch her.

Do not even go near to zina

One would rather be hit by an iron rod than touch a non-mahram woman. Do you not see the danger of what you are doing

Audhubillah. May allah protect us all
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Please be serious. Muslim GF is an oxymoron.

Ditch her.

Do not even go near to zina

One would rather be hit by an iron rod than touch a non-mahram woman. Do you not see the danger of what you are doing

Audhubillah. May allah protect us all
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It's hard for us muslim lads.. can resonate with OP.

It's hard for us muslim lads.. can resonate with OP.

what can I do, we both like each other very much.
But we cannot show it.
Hence we argue all the time, and it drains me out everytime

He could just Marry her if he likes her

Cant we just have each other. Like no touching or kissing etc.
I just want to spend time with her.

My friend is Muslim and with a Muslim girl for the time being, they have the intention of marrying in a few years and they do go out together but her Mahram is there, so to keep it halal. I could personally not do that.. but it's a thought. Either that or you go against religious beliefs. Really difficult predicament, especially when feelings are involved.

I had to abstain from 2 girls I really liked in the past.. now I've just sort of given up with this whole romance thing. My life is now dedicated to TV series.

not really all you need is an Imam and 4 witnesses

Cant we just have each other. Like no touching or kissing etc.
I just want to spend time with her.

If you stuck by the laws of allah, you wouldnt be in this mess. You have to stop talking to her ok


Yes, he can. But op has already said that this is out of the question.

Rasulullah (saw) did encourage people do get married early tho

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