Guys: you love her, what would you do?

Stay with. I am unsure about whether I want children anyway, plus that means I can raw dog her anytime with no fears of accidental pregnancy.

suffice it to say FHRITP

I wouldn't leave her for that reason, it would not make sense.

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I'm undecided whether I want children, I'm not at a stage where I've decided what I want. But if you're serious about someone, if she makes you happy, if she's the best woman for you, then it makes no sense to leave her for being barren. There are other options. Being able to bear children isn't a must, that's my opinion (for now). What you should ask yourself is, can you do better? Do you have any doubts about the relationship, or are you perfectly happy to stay with her? In my opinion, her fertility isn't an issue. But that's just me.

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Sounds an awful lot like you've been watching far too much How I Met Your Mother, or you've found your Robin.

I'm a girl so I'd side with her. It's hypothetical though.

I appreciate your attitude towards it and seems nice that you'd have this approach when a lot of the time in your other threads you put on the nonchalant facade.

But you are capable of compassion. 10/10 for today

I don't understand what you mean, when have I ever put on a "nonchalant facade"? I'm a straight shooter. Why the hell would a man leave a woman because of something that is out of her control? You'd have to be mad!

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Stay with and consider donor eggs? Unless she doesn't have a womb (or womb condition) should could possible still carry a baby to term-and that's what a lot of woman want to experience.And if she used a donor egg yeah the majority of the DNA wouldn't match hers, but the baby would still have maternal mitochondrial DNA and yours and thus the baby would be technically genetically both yours.

I'm a girl but just thought I'd put that out there.

Interesting. Thanks for some science

That's the thing about love... It's not a decision making process. It's something you can't help, whether it's present or absent.

In other news, there is such a thing as surrogacy et al, certainly in the future should become more accessible.

If your romantic inclinations towards this person were just an elegant way of pursuing your reproductive agenda, you've got to take a step back and realise that maybe it would've been useful to share this explicitly rather than go with the flow and end up in this particular, not so easy situation.

I reiterate the first point: If you love someone, you can't decide to unlove them. Meeting someone else and leading them on just to get them to make your child while you're in love with the first person is in no way something anyone would be happy doing in this situation.