How to indirectly ask if she has a bf ?

The aim when approaching a girl you really like is to be lighthearted but with a touch of romance.

If she's pretty she will have been approached lots so you need something memorable.

Don't throw up, but I once saw some one do the following. As he passed this girl at a party he kissed her cheek ever so lightly and quickly. So quickly she didn't see who it was but looked round immediately. He said nothing but was smiling quietly as he, of course , expected just that and wanted to see how she'd react. Worked like a dream. She was hooked.

The message he sent was judged just right- interest, admiration, novelty.

I've 'taken it slow' before and it generally hasn't ended all too well.

Quite right you're tempting fate.


Not bad, was also thinking something along the lines of 'so what are your plans for valentines day ?

NO, no, no. Far too direct. She may be embarrassed to tell you she's got nothing on. If she evades the question, you've got off on the wrong foot and you've already got a problem.

Just say, 'I've been admiring you from afar, are you taken?' If she says yes, you say ' what a shame, you know where I am if it doesn't turn out well. - I'll be waiting...'

She'll be flattered at your gallantry, every girl likes to have admirers. You just keep smiling at her when you meet......