So I just read somewhere that, contrary to popular belief, girls get 'friend zoned' all the time 'but they're not big whiney pussies about it like friend zoned men are'
So my question to women is, how dd you so stoically accept such a rejection? And I guess the same of men, who have not turned into Nice Guys (™) or UltimatGentleman
N.B. This has nothing much to do with my personal situation considering I have barely any friends who are women at present
The first guy I loved didn't even glance at me. Well he knew I existed, but didn't want to be associated with me. I was in year 10!!!! Lol, so yeah it hurt like a bitch. It was 5 years ago now, but you deffo live and learn. Now, I'm not so quick to give my heart away, I guard it to avoid getting hurt again. I rarely think about him now
Ignore Samba, he doesn't like me and has his own warped views on masculinity etc.
I'm a young male with severe anxiety disorder, paranoia levels with certain things (the main things being relationships and hypochondria).
I don't think about masculinity much, but I'll bite. Please explain, what are my warped views on the subject?
And you're a young male troll who likes attention on an internet forum. Let's not mince words here, or use mental health as an excuse for doing things you're quite capable of not doing.
Yeah I would be careful if you call me beta, I'll have the mods on you like light to the flies.
Perhaps all men with mental health issues under the care of GPs are pussies who can't fight for themselves, I dunno I tried making that thread in H+R in 2013, wouldn't recommend it unless you like red cards.
You are you, not all men And it's got nothing to do with being 'unable to fight for yourself' - it has to do with being an irritating little mosquito who isn't worth the effort for people to befriend.
I'm considered fairly attractive by random younger women who don't know me too well, then my social skills and mental health problems scare them away, except for a select few who have been close friends/crushes
If only serial killers could get away with that defense... Alcoholism is a physical addiction. So no, you're nothing like an alcoholic, just a bog standard troll.
Orca whales are social animals too. What's a beta Orca?
Penguins are social animals. What's a beta penguin?
I don't think you or I know what is going on with my brain chemistry, I know I'm a bit irresponsible and very immature but to say I am bull****ting the whole thing is a bit strong
I don't think it's a matter of women being superior stoics. I think women get friendzoned here and there, but some guys get friendzoned persistently and consistently.
I don't think it's a matter of women being superior stoics. I think women get friendzoned here and there, but some guys get friendzoned persistently and consistently.
frustratingly any woman who discovers the extent of my anxieties IRL will inevitably 'friend zone' me so I must forever keep myself at a distance
Just keep reminding yourself of the positives of being forever alone such as not having to share the bed covers And half the amount of dishes and clothes to wash. Not having to share the bathroom. And no arguments about the toilet seat...