Guys, I'm a college student and at present each time I'm out in a night club and encounter a guy he turns out to be an absolute ball bag.
For instance. I was out on Tuesday and met a guy who was extremely good-looking, popular, friendly. He spoke to me the entire night. Asked for my number and even begged me to go to lunch with him the next day. During our conversation guys were coming up to him and congratulating him on getting someone like me. I accepted, took his number, kissed him and then spent the night texting him. He immediately added me on Facebook.
In the morning he asked were we still going on a date. I said yes if it suited him. He didn't reply and I was going to have to leave to travel home soon so I messaged him again asking what time. He then said he was busy in the library and we could do it another time (he didn't specify when, where). I said that's ok.. I then texted him today asking 'So what about this date?'. He replied that he was home now and couldn't meet me unless I travelled to his. I replied that I couldn't see that happening and suggested he travelled near where I live.
He just seemed to ignore my message and it shows he's online?
Why do I keep coming across guys like this who don't feel they have to fit the image portrayed by Dan Bilzerian and the Wolf of Wall Street?
I don't understand what I did wrong? I don't come on too strong- I play it pretty cool but then when I show interest they stop talking to me?
It's so stupid and I'm really giving up on ever getting into a relationship and actually having something stable in my life.
Please tell me I'm not alone in this?