Sometimes does it annoy you when people try to conform to gender stereotypes or behave in a contrived why to fit into a masculine/feminine paradigm? My sisters boyfriend kind of does this. For example he always goes on about how much he likes beer etc. When my sister had her baby he had a bottle of beer in the house when I went round and then he said he would make a cot for her (woodwork). Kind of because the environment was feminine with all the baby stuff he kind of is going against it. In the same way his friends always drone on about how they like beer I find it so boring and cringey, Even though I like beer I don't go on about it or try to appear 'masculine'. Also when people wear football shirts in random situations etc. People are desperate to not be seen as gay. Other stereotypes exist like when people don't want to be seen as a geek or 'keener' so they try and pretend they don't care about their education.