I'm a feminist but I don't support radical feminism, double standards, misandry or the common belief that all men must now be punished and branded as woman-hating rapists in the making for the wrongs of their fathers and forefathers.
I also believe that popular culture encourages misandry and misogyny simultaneously-but most importantly glamourises superficial materialist outlooks on relationships at the pinnacle of society as a whole, moulding some impressionable young people. I largely blame the decline of religion and the family unit in the West for this; money is the new god, money and power. (Of course to some extent power via money was always the god of the masses…anyway)
I could go off on one about liberalism which is intimately linked to feminism but in practice would rather not be in a more feudal era...
Although marriage is primarily a flawed misogynist concept of acquiring property at heart, underneath the spiritual facade, I do think that its decline has given plenty of opportunity for forms of hypergamy in LTRs (which is a thing, but not because women are evil, because security). Many men are displaced by this, and combined with the media age, facing less realistic expectations form women than ever before...
Finally I believe gender is largely a social construct, but not entirely, which is why as a whole straight women prefer relatively masculine men and vice versa. Yet ironically the late 20th to 21st century has brought in an Information Age which created a sharp decline in the male-dominated industries e.g. building, and left men feeling further disillusioned and confused…
Many men complain that feminism has 'emasculated' men, rather I think it has brought out the inner child in them, and led to a regression from maturity, perhaps out of fear of the realities.
Of course I just like to project, why would you trust me?