Not so sure but I use to have this friend who use to constantly put me off by what she use to say about me. My family and friends told me she was insecure.
- She always used to talk about herself and how beautiful she is. Oh my! That was something. She would tall about how she's fair and that my tanned skin means that I can't be pretty lol. I remember me and a few friends sitting down and she randomly started saying that she's so glad that she had braces and that cos of that she now has pouty lips. And oh yes, that was out the blue. My other friend later on got so annoyed and said that she's not vain, rather insecure. She always kept digging for compliments. I even remember walking down the corridor with her and 2 of my class fellows were looking at me and talking and I heard my name, they came and said that we weren't saying anything bad about you. Rather, that you are so beautiful and that friend of mine shifted the topic and had some weird expressions on her face. :/
I dunno, she used to always say that my features aren't good. I've small eyes and I'm a Pakistani and she used to call me 'Chinese' cos my eyes were not big. She was so rude. Plus, her lack of knowledge was just so much that she couldn't recognise the difference between a Chinese eye and a small eye lol. My other friend got to know how she used to say such things and once told me that she's insecure cos she's a bit heavy and you're slim.
Any ways, this is very immature of her. I'm still not sure whether she was an insecure being or not lol.