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Breast size and self-confidence

I was told a few weeks ago by my ex that I have small boobs and I am flat chested. I am 34C so personally I thought I was average in size. I was happy with it beforehand by the way. I have a size 10 figure and I'm 5'3.

My question is, is my size actually average? My ex assumes that D cup or higher is normal. I am quite self conscious about the way I look now and I've lost a bit of self-confidence. This is stopping me moving on and finding a new guy which is something I’d like to do. Thanks

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I would say that its fine!! You have nothing to worry about :smile:
Tell him to bugger off.

You sound as though you have a gorgeous figure and a C cup will be around average (I think). Why are you unhappy with your body now that your ex says you have little boobs?

Listen to yourself.

Who cares what your ex "assumes" is normal? I'm guessing he's your ex for a reason, and you not "moving on and finding a new guy", may be the precise reason he said it in the first place.

Make sense?
Size 34C is completely and utterly around the average size. It is definately not 'flat chested'. Your ex obviusly has a warped male driven mind about what size breasts should be, and although he may agree, I am sure you will find most do not!!

Be happy with your body, and flaunt those babies!!

Be happy!!
Cazz
Reply 4
how old are you/your ex? sounds like he doesn't have that much experience of 'real' women and i purely going on what the media and porn industry tells him. I think C is average, I think it's also what most people who have boobs jobs get, though i'm not sure, so don't worry. Just tell him he has a small penis
Anonymous
I was told a few weeks ago by my ex that I have small boobs and I am flat chested. I am 34C so personally I thought I was average in size. I was happy with it beforehand by the way. I have a size 10 figure and I'm 5'3.

My question is, is my size actually average? My ex assumes that D cup or higher is normal. I am quite self conscious about the way I look now and I've lost a bit of self-confidence. This is stopping me moving on and finding a new guy which is something I’d like to do. Thanks


your ex sounds like a complete idiot (im guessing thts why hes your ex)
your are completly fine.
guys normally dont really care as long as you have something which you do.
Just ignore him!!!
if you're flat chested then i have non existent breasts! (im an A cup)
Reply 7
Your ex is a dummy - C is considered by most people above average. I always thought of B as average...and A as relatively flat-chested (though lots of men like them small and perky anyway).

I'm just going to assume your bf knew this would strike a nerve and said that with the intent of making you brood and feel bad about yourself.
Reply 8
squigaletta
how old are you/your ex? sounds like he doesn't have that much experience of 'real' women and i purely going on what the media and porn industry tells him. I think C is average, I think it's also what most people who have boobs jobs get, though i'm not sure, so don't worry. Just tell him he has a small penis


He is nearly 21 but has the mentality of a 15 year old. I'm 19. I don't talk to him anymore by the way. I cut contact soon after we finished and don't really want to talk to him again.
Reply 9
don't worry, hes being an ass if he has a problem with it.
Some men like big tits, some like small tits, and some just dont care.

If he is shallow enough that your size was enough to cause a relationship to fail, then he deserves the plastic faced fakeness of a lingerie model.

personally, I like them small, so we are out there!
Reply 11
I think a B cup is average.... stupid boy! :rolleyes:
C is above average.
Reply 13
C in my opinion is above average.
squigaletta

Just tell him he has a small penis



Awhhh someone beat me too it!

He's clearly just thinking with his other small head that he should bring you down a peg or two or something by insulting how you look. Also if he knocks your confidence it may stop you from finding another guy so quickly?

I dunno, just tell him to shut and grow up.
for us to be able to say whether your size is average, you must first post a pic
NO WAYY!!.. I'm a 30FF .. and in December I'm getting a reduction to a 30B.. because I want a nicer size. 34C is a lovely size trust me :-)
sarah-h1990
NO WAYY!!.. I'm a 30FF .. and in December I'm getting a reduction to a 30B.. because I want a nicer size. 34C is a lovely size trust me :-)

don't do it! Think of all the ££££ you could make doing page 3 for the sun.
Reply 18
Girl Guinevere
if you're flat chested then i have non existent breasts! (im an A cup)

Agreed! I love mine and my boyfriend loves them too, you definitely have nothing to worry about though.
HenvY
don't do it! Think of all the ££££ you could make doing page 3 for the sun.

I would rather keep my self respect and earn money through a more respectable job to be honest.

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