Things need to be spiced up. It happens for all long term relationships so I would not be concerned but if your boyfriend shows lack of effort/willing for wanting to change things as they stand then yes be concerned. Why not set up a weekly date night, wine and dine each other, find a local gig going on and just go that evening, walks in a country park, salsa dancing (recently started this with my own bf), start a new hobby together(for example, my bf is teaching me chess and we play against each other), go away on a trip just for the weekend when you are both free (it doesn't have to even be abroad even if it's in the next city a change of scenery will do you both good)
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