I saw them kissing outside the house from my bedroom's window and I was shocked at what I saw.
Should I tell my mum?
Yes, think about how your mum would feel. Try get proof first, but don't let your dad find out it was you who told your mum. You don't want to ruin your relationship with your father, although you might hate his guts right now.
Was it a peck/little kiss which could have been innocent or a full on sexual snog?
How will I know when it's gonna happen again? The friend doesn't come around often. It was my mum's birthday and she was the last guest to leave my dad was "walking her to the car".
That's providing she saw them kissing and it's not really implicit of an affair. He could still make out as if it was a first time kiss and convince her mom that is was a one-off mistake etc.....
I know of a friend where something similar happened....
How will I know when it's gonna happen again? The friend doesn't come around often. It was my mum's birthday and she was the last guest to leave my dad was "walking her to the car".
That's providing she saw them kissing and it's not really implicit of an affair. He could still make out as if it was a first time kiss and convince her mom that is was a one-off mistake etc.....
I know of a friend where something similar happened....
That is what happens when you become too trusting.
That is what happens when you become too trusting.
When you're in situation where you know your marriage is falling apart, you begin to make excuse for your partner especially with kids involved. My friends parents relationship didn't end well as his mom found his dad's burner phone, where he had been texting someone sexual texts etc and then his dad claimed it was a friends phone
I'm confused and hurt at the same time. I reckon I'll have a sleep on it and see how I'm feeling in the morning. I've been put in a terrible position and I think it's unfair that this pressure and stress is weighing on me.
When you're in situation where you know your marriage is falling apart, you begin to make excuse for your partner especially with kids involved. My friends parents relationship didn't end well as his mom found his dad's burner phone, where he had been texting someone sexual texts etc and then his dad claimed it was a friends phone
Oh dear. I know all about messy divorce. My parents' divorce battle raged on for 15 years.