Check out the website in my sig. It's not just for hardcore fetishists or anything like that. Anyone who likes anything kinky will be comfortable there.
Nothing wrong with kinky fun so long as it is completely consensual, as in discussed clearly beforehand and readily agreed to, and done in a safe way. Safe words are good, and a safe signal, that you need to look out for, if talking is not an option. Read and get informed, I'm tired and I can't remember other things, and if Ii could it would only make up a tiny percentage of the knowledge that is out there (and I've been around a while). And there are plenty of ways to meet like minded people. I mean, handcuffs and blindfolds? That's cute.
Remember, kids, Safe, Sane, Legal, that's how you have kinky fun.