Are there any girls that aren't gold diggers?

But suppose two men, A and B, are identical in every way, except man A is a millionaire and man B is earning below average wage. Is it still just a coin flip to you whether you pick man A or man B, or are you now preferring man A.

For most men this extra info won't really be relevant, but I suspect most women want to sponge of their man at least a little bit and will thus lean towards man A.

Who's whinging this is an on-line forum so I have the legitimate right to post my view, secondly I don't need the opinion of another random user on how to pick up girls Thank you.

In my previous thread I talked about why people break up and also on other threads, people said girls found a rich man more attractive and dumped their life long partner.

Are there any loyal girls on here or elsewhere that don't jump onto the next guy as soon as they see money? I need to have my faith in humanity restored.

Edit: I mean girls that have jobs, but also latch onto rich men.

In my previous thread I talked about why people break up and also on other threads, people said girls found a rich man more attractive and dumped their life long partner.

Are there any loyal girls on here or elsewhere that don't jump onto the next guy as soon as they see money? I need to have my faith in humanity restored.

Edit: I mean girls that have jobs, but also latch onto rich men.

But suppose two men, A and B, are identical in every way, except man A is a millionaire and man B is earning below average wage. Is it still just a coin flip to you whether you pick man A or man B, or are you now preferring man A.

For most men this extra info won't really be relevant, but I suspect most women want to sponge of their man at least a little bit and will thus lean towards man A.

Are there any guys on the TSR that don't generalise women?

I'm only 19 but I don't care for my boyfriends income. It just so happens that he's in university at the moment so he's not going to be financially well off but I have absolutely no problem with that!

For me personally, I prefer the thought of me going out and making my own living. Hence why I'm going to university in September to get a degree and hopefully somewhere down the line, land myself a well paid job

I spend money on my boyfriend whenever I can, I've bought him shoes for the sake of it, I've bought him games for his playstation, I've bought him clothes. I really enjoy spending my money on the person who I love most! We're pretty equal in that respect with our relationship because he likes to pay for things when we're out, so I repay him by buying him things without him knowing

High heels? Don't wear them.
Make-up? Don't wear it.
Handbags? Have none, have no need for one.

Not that there is anything wrong with women who like their shoes, make-up and handbags.

My boyfriend isn't wealthy. That makes no difference to me, though. He makes me happy. We've been together for several years, we have a great relationship, we're planning on getting married, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him.

And no, I haven't settled. He is, in my opinion, the greatest guy on Earth. Yes, I am biased, but so what?

In my previous thread I talked about why people break up and also on other threads, people said girls found a rich man more attractive and dumped their life long partner.

Are there any loyal girls on here or elsewhere that don't jump onto the next guy as soon as they see money? I need to have my faith in humanity restored.

Edit: I mean girls that have jobs, but also latch onto rich men.

But people are never identical in every way, so that doesn't translate to dating reality.

There's a difference between being a gold digger and wanting a man that can provide in a genuine relationship

If I had the choice of staying at home and sponging off my man, or it the other way round- the latter would win every time.

However what's actually wrong with being a gold digger? There are plenty of men out there who don't mind (and even in some cases- prefer) their s/o to not work. They like the fact they are depended on and provide a luxury lifestyle to their loved one. There are also thousands of sugar daddy/sugar mommy relationships that people CHOOSE to enter into because that's what interests them- that is there choice.

Throughout history women have been told their role is to stay in the home and the husbands role is to provide. Families would push their daughters towards marrying someone well-off as this would provide a 'better' lifestyle. And so what? If that's what they want to do and no one is being hurt then fine.

There are plenty of women and men that just date for looks and sexual appeal. There are also plenty of relationships that are based on money- men also sponge off women too suprisingly!

Just because you don't like it doesn't mean it's wrong. Adults make their own decisions, date a gold digger or be a gold digger- doesn't mean they aren't a good person.

In practice this never occurs, however what the thought experiment will illustrate is how males and females view wealth differently when analyzing the attractiveness of the opposite sex. The way we model the world is never the way the world actually works, but we can learn a lot by analyzing simplified models (which is what is done in all areas of science). I admit however this can be hard to get ones head around if they have never studied any sciences at a high level before.

That hypothetical scenario is completely pointless though, that situation of two men exactly the same apart from money would never happen in real life so it proves nothing.

I personally don't think I'd want to be a millionaire, way more money than I need.

You sound like good women, my faith has been restored. But would you leave him if he got into mortgage repayment problems? That's a huge worry based on relationships made from money

Science? Is that a new high quality brand of shampoo? Tell me moar!

*cuddles kittens and starts an English Literature degree*

I'm glad you asked. Science is about understanding how the world works, often by breaking it down into understandable components, using thought experiments and real experiments to determine the principles that govern our universe.

One of the fascinating things about discovery in science, is often you must consider the most absurd unrealistic scenarios (such as Einstein thinking about travelling along a light beam) in order to discover the fundamental mechanics of our real world.

Not everyone is destined to study science to a high level, but I think everyone would be wise to respect this noble pursuit.

But it is interesting that it is usually the women who want a man to provide, rather than a man wanting a woman to provide isn't it?