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im a 24 year old virgin

i am almost 24, i have no expereince with women because i have always been shy, tbh my confidence has never been great because i have a small penis, serouis how can i change? do girls really mind about penis size? please help

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What you do with it is what counts. Penis size is just a small issue (pardon the pun)

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You gotta start talking to girls if you want to get to know them and eventually achieve that level with them, try meeting ones that like the same stuff as you do


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Yes they do mind, but lucky for you theres hope. Asian women don't mind small penises because that's all they're used to, as a matter of fact yours might look like an anaconda compared to what they normally see! Go and get yourself an asian mate cos once you go asian it doesn't take much persuasion.
Original post by Anton Miller
Yes they do mind, but lucky for you theres hope. Asian women don't mind small penises because that's all they're used to, as a matter of fact yours might look like an anaconda compared to what they normally see! Go and get yourself an asian mate cos once you go asian it doesn't take much persuasion.


I had sex with a indian guy...was larger than life

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Penis size isn't your issue here, forget about it completely. You need to be confident, don't be scared to approach women. Even if you feel like you may be rejected. You have to really make an effort and put yourself our there, because women will never make the first move or approach you. As a man, it's on you to do that.

Just to let you know about the things that women look for. Women are attracted to rich men, they have a real lust for money. Women are attracted to handsome, tall, rich men. If you are none of these things, then it becomes very difficult to find a woman to have sex with. If you're not handsome or rich, then you'll need other qualities such as a sparkling personality, high confidence and top notch conversational skills that enable you to smooth-talk your way into getting sex from a woman.

So here's what you need to do. You need to stop being shy, I'm sure you have nothing to be shy about. Why not invest effort and time into improving your image (sort out your wardrobe, get a haircut, stay well-groomed, etc), and try to expand your social circle by going out to meet new people. Don't be afraid to walk up to a girl and start a conversation, it may be very awkward, it may fail miserably, but you need to do that in order to get sex. Women won't give away sex just like that, you have to show them that you're rich/handsome/confident etc. Unfortunately, a lot of the time, it may be necessary to enter into a relationship before a woman will give you sex. In this case, tell her than you're also looking for a relationship, once you're in, you keep it going, get all the sex that you need, and eventually when you get bored you can leave her and move on to someone else.

Hope this helps. Also, don't let your life revolv around this, there are other more important things than sex (although perhaps very little else is associated with such a strong desire).

Good luck to you.

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Original post by Anton Miller
Yes they do mind, but lucky for you theres hope. Asian women don't mind small penises because that's all they're used to, as a matter of fact yours might look like an anaconda compared to what they normally see! Go and get yourself an asian mate cos once you go asian it doesn't take much persuasion.


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Original post by Anton Miller
Yes they do mind, but lucky for you theres hope. Asian women don't mind small penises because that's all they're used to, as a matter of fact yours might look like an anaconda compared to what they normally see! Go and get yourself an asian mate cos once you go asian it doesn't take much persuasion.


No.

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Original post by Anton Miller
Fact.


I'm an Asian woman. I know the difference between a (properly) small and big penis. :rolleyes:

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Original post by donutaud15
I'm an Asian woman. I know the difference between a (properly) small and big penis. :rolleyes:

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There is the touchdown! She wins the fight!


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Original post by Yeah dude
There is the touchdown! She wins the fight!


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Yeah dude :wink:
Original post by ZeroName
Yeah dude :wink:

Infact you win the fight because of the reference dude :wink:
What were the odds that I would find someone like you. My advice would be viagra :wink: lol Jk I don't have a small penis I just wanted to laugh at you haha kekekek :smile:)))))))
Original post by OMGsideboob
Penis size isn't your issue here, forget about it completely. You need to be confident, don't be scared to approach women. Even if you feel like you may be rejected. You have to really make an effort and put yourself our there, because women will never make the first move or approach you. As a man, it's on you to do that.

Just to let you know about the things that women look for. Women are attracted to rich men, they have a real lust for money. Women are attracted to handsome, tall, rich men. If you are none of these things, then it becomes very difficult to find a woman to have sex with. If you're not handsome or rich, then you'll need other qualities such as a sparkling personality, high confidence and top notch conversational skills that enable you to smooth-talk your way into getting sex from a woman.

So here's what you need to do. You need to stop being shy, I'm sure you have nothing to be shy about. Why not invest effort and time into improving your image (sort out your wardrobe, get a haircut, stay well-groomed, etc), and try to expand your social circle by going out to meet new people. Don't be afraid to walk up to a girl and start a conversation, it may be very awkward, it may fail miserably, but you need to do that in order to get sex. Women won't give away sex just like that, you have to show them that you're rich/handsome/confident etc. Unfortunately, a lot of the time, it may be necessary to enter into a relationship before a woman will give you sex. In this case, tell her than you're also looking for a relationship, once you're in, you keep it going, get all the sex that you need, and eventually when you get bored you can leave her and move on to someone else.

Hope this helps. Also, don't let your life revolv around this, there are other more important things than sex (although perhaps very little else is associated with such a strong desire).

Good luck to you.

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Original post by OMGsideboob
Penis size isn't your issue here, forget about it completely. You need to be confident, don't be scared to approach women. Even if you feel like you may be rejected. You have to really make an effort and put yourself our there, because women will never make the first move or approach you. As a man, it's on you to do that.

Just to let you know about the things that women look for. Women are attracted to rich men, they have a real lust for money. Women are attracted to handsome, tall, rich men. If you are none of these things, then it becomes very difficult to find a woman to have sex with. If you're not handsome or rich, then you'll need other qualities such as a sparkling personality, high confidence and top notch conversational skills that enable you to smooth-talk your way into getting sex from a woman.

So here's what you need to do. You need to stop being shy, I'm sure you have nothing to be shy about. Why not invest effort and time into improving your image (sort out your wardrobe, get a haircut, stay well-groomed, etc), and try to expand your social circle by going out to meet new people. Don't be afraid to walk up to a girl and start a conversation, it may be very awkward, it may fail miserably, but you need to do that in order to get sex. Women won't give away sex just like that, you have to show them that you're rich/handsome/confident etc. Unfortunately, a lot of the time, it may be necessary to enter into a relationship before a woman will give you sex. In this case, tell her than you're also looking for a relationship, once you're in, you keep it going, get all the sex that you need, and eventually when you get bored you can leave her and move on to someone else.

Hope this helps. Also, don't let your life revolv around this, there are other more important things than sex (although perhaps very little else is associated with such a strong desire).

Good luck to you.

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Am i the only girl who want to be with someone she get alongs with and have things in common with :/ dont get me wrong having ambition to want to do something with your life OR being a decent person who takes care of themselves is something i like and look for.

But tall/handsome/rich...those things get old fast, and similar to this post i would probably stick around until im bored of them.
I'd just move to some arab/eastern country where the women are either segregated/covered up or you can just hire one.
Original post by OMGsideboob
Penis size isn't your issue here, forget about it completely. You need to be confident, don't be scared to approach women. Even if you feel like you may be rejected. You have to really make an effort and put yourself our there, because women will never make the first move or approach you. As a man, it's on you to do that.

Just to let you know about the things that women look for. Women are attracted to rich men, they have a real lust for money. Women are attracted to handsome, tall, rich men. If you are none of these things, then it becomes very difficult to find a woman to have sex with. If you're not handsome or rich, then you'll need other qualities such as a sparkling personality, high confidence and top notch conversational skills that enable you to smooth-talk your way into getting sex from a woman.

So here's what you need to do. You need to stop being shy, I'm sure you have nothing to be shy about. Why not invest effort and time into improving your image (sort out your wardrobe, get a haircut, stay well-groomed, etc), and try to expand your social circle by going out to meet new people. Don't be afraid to walk up to a girl and start a conversation, it may be very awkward, it may fail miserably, but you need to do that in order to get sex. Women won't give away sex just like that, you have to show them that you're rich/handsome/confident etc. Unfortunately, a lot of the time, it may be necessary to enter into a relationship before a woman will give you sex. In this case, tell her than you're also looking for a relationship, once you're in, you keep it going, get all the sex that you need, and eventually when you get bored you can leave her and move on to someone else.

Hope this helps. Also, don't let your life revolv around this, there are other more important things than sex (although perhaps very little else is associated with such a strong desire).

Good luck to you.

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I am in the same situation as OP and i get heart attacks just seeing women in the street. I haven't got the courage to approach one even when drunk. I've gotten a few numbers but they never seem to reply to my texts or calls.

The last time i set up a date she was 2 and a half hours late, and wanted me to go back to her place to find her bank card. I don't know why I even bother trying. I feel stupid just by looking at women and having feelings towards them.
Original post by OMGsideboob
Penis size isn't your issue here, forget about it completely. You need to be confident, don't be scared to approach women. Even if you feel like you may be rejected. You have to really make an effort and put yourself our there, because women will never make the first move or approach you. As a man, it's on you to do that.

Just to let you know about the things that women look for. Women are attracted to rich men, they have a real lust for money. Women are attracted to handsome, tall, rich men. If you are none of these things, then it becomes very difficult to find a woman to have sex with. If you're not handsome or rich, then you'll need other qualities such as a sparkling personality, high confidence and top notch conversational skills that enable you to smooth-talk your way into getting sex from a woman.

So here's what you need to do. You need to stop being shy, I'm sure you have nothing to be shy about. Why not invest effort and time into improving your image (sort out your wardrobe, get a haircut, stay well-groomed, etc), and try to expand your social circle by going out to meet new people. Don't be afraid to walk up to a girl and start a conversation, it may be very awkward, it may fail miserably, but you need to do that in order to get sex. Women won't give away sex just like that, you have to show them that you're rich/handsome/confident etc. Unfortunately, a lot of the time, it may be necessary to enter into a relationship before a woman will give you sex. In this case, tell her than you're also looking for a relationship, once you're in, you keep it going, get all the sex that you need, and eventually when you get bored you can leave her and move on to someone else.

Hope this helps. Also, don't let your life revolv around this, there are other more important things than sex (although perhaps very little else is associated with such a strong desire).

Good luck to you.

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This is all very good advice :smile:
Original post by tuly92
maturity level x 100000! fully stand behind you, girl!

i feel disappointed that all replies so far have been so shallow. Find a person you connect with, become comfortable and then let things take their natural turn. Virginity is precious. its societal rules that are putting a pressure on you but you don't need to follow the crowd, i know plenty of girls who want a guy just like you. all you need to do is break a little out of your shell, stop thinking about this certain issue and instead aim towards making new interesting girl- friends. :smile:


LMAO, just STFU. Of course you can easily say this as women can lose their virginity by just walking up to any guy.

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