like if you have a crush on a celebrity or a teacher can you help it? like if you like someone, you like someone. thats it. no matter who it is, you cant help having a crush on them? just wondering if you can help it or not if you get me?
I agree with you that you just can't help it. In the past I've liked people and spent way too much time thinking/talking about them and it usually has worked to my detrament .
i dont think you can help who you like...feelings just happen. However, you can encourage feelings and make them stronger and there are things you can do to control them.
I don't think you can help it but 90% of them only last for so long anyway, like there is girls I use to really fancy at uni last year but I've pretty much lost interest in them this year
like if you have a crush on a celebrity or a teacher can you help it? like if you like someone, you like someone. thats it. no matter who it is, you cant help having a crush on them? just wondering if you can help it or not if you get me?
Go out and get laid. It might take your mind off your crush.
Yeah, you can stop/avoid a crush on someone. You've got to have a lot of will power though. Even if you don't, you might just lose the crush after x weeks/months/years...although hopefully after only a few weeks!
I don't think you can control who you fall for, but I do think that once you've fallen for someone, you can go so far in convincing yourself that they'll never like you back, that in the end you just give up. Then the excitement of possibility wears off and slowly (very slowly ) the infatuation will wear off, too.