Original post by MequaThe problem is, a man being genuine like that is more likely to be hurt by rejection. Many women seem to find that unattractive, and would actually get turned on more by a man who is emotionally distant. As a result, genuine men are more likely to be put off playing the game and trying to woo women, their confidence level being hit by rejection when they are being authentic and vulnerable. That lack of confidence is furthermore seen as unattractive. In the meat market, they are out-competed by players.
It seems a lot of women want to have their cake and eat it. They want a man who is genuine and sensitive (or they at least claim to), yet prefer the confidence and invulnerability of an emotionally distant player as that's what gets their juices flowing. They then go on to reject (and hurt) a genuine man, often imputing malicious intent on him which isn't there, and fall for player after player. Then they decide that "all men are pigs". They cry to their girlfriends who agree with them in solidarity. Yeah, men, what pigs.
They cry to the genuine men who are pursuing them, yet they find unattractive for not being enough of a cocky emotionally distant and invulnerable player, about how evil the men are they keep choosing, exploiting the genuine men's unrequited romantic interest in them for an emotional crutch.
Then those types of women have the audacity to accuse anyone who points out the unflattering truth about their behaviour of hating women. OK, here's another unflattering truth. That is psychological projection. They actually hate men.
Now, I am all for women's basic human rights. But it's for reasons like this that I could not in good conscience call myself a feminist. The contemporary feminist movement aids and abets this kind of behaviour from dysfunctional women and encourages anyone who criticises it to be mercilessly attacked for not walking on eggshells. It encourages abusive women to absolve themselves of personal responsibility while shifting all the blame onto men. That makes it morally bankrupt.