I hate drinking,partying,Smoking

Well if that's your style then I respect

Hello most people my age like drinking and partying I hate this not because of my religion but i hate alcohol its effects thas why I never druk in my life as drunk people are so hard to talk to I need control over my boy 24/7.Many people say I am like an old women as I don't go out I don't socialise I prefer to read or watch tv rather then do these things. Does anyone who is young feel like that is well I hate dressing up I prefer to wear sweat pants comfy loose clothing or pyjamas rather then go out. I hate even a bit of alcohol not even a drop of alcohol is acceptable in my house and no loud music only classic musci like Motzart or Chopin or choir music

Thank you I am also angree that small talk don't matter a patient wants to know whether their disease is curable whether they need any medicine and whether they are ok not oh the weather is nice today you should not waste time focus what is important here.

You could spend your entire life researching and not discover anything. Those that make breakthroughs are the exceptions, not the norm, which is why they receive high honours and earn a lot of respect in their respective fields. Then again, those that have made significant breakthroughs, those that had a massive impact on the world, be it scientific, artistic or culturalistic often had vices they needed as a coping mechanism, or a way to express themselves fully. No offence but I think some people truly do live in a dream world. The Tesla's, the Eistein's, the da Vinci's, the Curie's, the Bohr's, the Darwin's and the Newton's are the exceptions, not the norm. The vast majority of researchers or scientists aren't remembered at all.

I am the same. Why put yourself in an early grave drinking and being on drugs? The people who do this to themselves are self harming and also put their parents in an early grave with the stress. Good for you listening to proper music also.

I quote this particular example but I could easily have chosen any of your other posts.

Your perception of the medical profession is deluded. If you seriously want to be a doctor you need to get some experience of the reality of medical practice. Human interaction with patients is the bread and butter of medicine. Dictating to them your esteemed views is not.

The way university admissions for medicine work in the UK are specifically geared towards finding people who understand this.

Every scientist plays a part. Those big eureka moments cannot occur without the small ones. Read some real research papers and then you'll understand how many different people are quoted. But you are right they are not remembered, but so what. It is not about becoming famous but bettering humanity and doing your bit.

I understand this totally, I can't stand smoking as it is just ruining your body. As for partying, it's a bit rubbish when you can't drink, even for me one or two glasses of vodka and coke can bring on my migraines, and I suffer with them really bad, so I am not able to drink... It kinda means partying is not an option for me, I have been drunk on multiple occasions, and when the migraine doesn't come on I still don't like it... To me it's not worth it.


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But if you never socialise with people you'll never make a good doctor. You'll never have the ability to make small talk that you need for the bedside manner.

The people who are remembered often take all of the credit. I'd rather live a modest and pretty basic life, enjoy it with the people around me and then look back knowing I did everything I wanted to do whilst having fun. I'm not going to work myself into a grave only to then have a bucketlist of things to do at 60 that I never got to do throughout life because I was too wrapped up trying to earn loads of money.

Socialising is much broader than going to parties and getting drunk. And anyway, it seems unlikely that it is from partying that doctors develop the ability to talk to their patients well.

And I'm not saying you can't, I'm just saying that people do and ignoring that is moronic on your part.

Clearly, though, you don't care.
Other posters are right, you have adopted a holier than thou attitude to which you have absolutely no right or reason. You are a snob, pure and simple. You have no concept of the value of being sociable, or of self restraint. You are quite as bad as those people who push religion.

The people who are remembered often take all of the credit. I'd rather live a modest and pretty basic life, enjoy it with the people around me and then look back knowing I did everything I wanted to do whilst having fun. I'm not going to work myself into a grave only to then have a bucketlist of things to do at 60 that I never got to do throughout life because I was too wrapped up trying to earn loads of money.

Socialising is much broader than going to parties and getting drunk. And anyway, it seems unlikely that it is from partying that doctors develop the ability to talk to their patients well.

Very true most people don't remember much from parties and the music is probably loud i assume so its not much socialising its dancing and drinking (getting dehydrated)

But it's also more than refusing to join in with your peers. Being sociable - having a life outside books and work - is just as valuable as your life inside work, and more important to your mental well being. You'd expect someone wanting to be a doctor to know that...



How would you know, you've never done either.

Well I asked people who do, this is their feed back and my observation from tv is well. I expect someone want to be a doctor to know things about medicine and develop their understanding of sciece and wants to use their knowledge from that to help others.I also feel much safer hiding ym face behind books as many people have disappointed me through my life by being unloyal,unfaithful and unkind and rejected me for being different and interested in science and things most people don't care about.

But it's also more than refusing to join in with your peers. Being sociable - having a life outside books and work - is just as valuable as your life inside work, and more important to your mental well being. You'd expect someone wanting to be a doctor to know that...



How would you know, you've never done either.