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Am a black girl who is labelled as "nice girl". AMA

Im incredibly bored, thats why

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What's your race got to do with you being labelled as a nice person?
Do you think being labelled nice is a bad thing?
Original post by Novascope
What's your race got to do with you being labelled as a nice person?


doesnt really. But the separate labels "nice girl" and the fact im black pretty much sums me up. :biggrin:
Original post by jedanselemyia
Do you think being labelled nice is a bad thing?


In a way yes because people see that and try to take advantage of that. Over the years i`ve learnt to draw lines.
Original post by knightandday
In a way yes because people see that and try to take advantage of that. Over the years i`ve learnt to draw lines.


I can relate so much! It's pretty annoying
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Original post by knightandday
In a way yes because people see that and try to take advantage of that. Over the years i`ve learnt to draw lines.


As a black female do you experience any prejudice and if so how does that make you feel?

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Original post by BB1523
As a black female do you experience any prejudice and if so how does that make you feel?

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I do but then so does everyone else. The prejudgement normally happens even before i speak, after that people tend to be quite surprised. its happens to me most places i go: i`ve been even described as a white-black girl, whatever that means :biggrin: :biggrin:

It used to bother me a lot but now I am like "i am going to do and act anyway i want and if people have a problem with it...well they know where to take their opinion :wink:"
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Original post by knightandday
I do but then so does everyone else. The prejudgement normally happens even before i speak, after that people tend to be quite surprised. its happens to me most places i go: i`ve been even described as a white-black girl, whatever that means :biggrin: :biggrin:

It used to bother me a lot but now I am like "i am going to do and act anyway i want and if people have a problem with it...well they know where to take their opinion :wink:"


Why do they call you white-black lol

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Original post by BB1523
Why do they call you white-black lol

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Im gonna guess its because i look black but can come across white sometimes. hahahahahaa whatever that means.
It was a girls from botswana that called me that :tongue:
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Original post by knightandday
Im gonna guess its because i look black but can come across white sometimes. hahahahahaa whatever that means.
It was a girls from botswana that called me that :tongue:


Lol are you african?

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Original post by BB1523
Lol are you african?

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I was born there!
Original post by knightandday
I was born there!

What country?
Original post by Imperion
What country?


Nigeria. :smile:

I like everything from P-square to scouting for girls!
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Original post by knightandday
Nigeria. :smile:

I like everything from P-square to scouting for girls!


It seems like a lot of "black girls" are quite chilled about the ignorance and stereotypes and don't let it get to em

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Same people expect me to be a bitch and to be ill mannered. They're quite surprised when I'm polite and easy going.lol But I have seen my inner black girl come out a few times...it's not a nice time!:colondollar:
Original post by BB1523
It seems like a lot of "black girls" are quite chilled about the ignorance and stereotypes and don't let it get to em

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It some way we do but i`ve known from a very, very young age that these stereotype exist, so i had a long time to practice dealing and hiding the annoyance of it all. I would say its the same for almost all races.

It really shouldn`t be like that but unfortunately it is. The only way to cope is to chin up and live your life.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koVHN6eO4Xg
Reply 17
I can relate, OP :biggrin: I've been called Oreo quite a few times lol. The sooner people understand individuals are individuals the better. Do you live in a multicultural area?
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Original post by MissLalaxx
Same people expect me to be a bitch and to be ill mannered. They're quite surprised when I'm polite and easy going.lol But I have seen my inner black girl come out a few times...it's not a nice time!:colondollar:


Lol... What is your inner "black" like? Lol

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Original post by BB1523
Lol... What is your inner "black" like? Lol

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Let's just say I have rage! I could cuss you out and point out flaws you didn't know you had basically. But I stopped that ages ago..maturity and all that.:biggrin:

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