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help. please.

I met a girl roughly a month and a bit ago, and first time I met her, I didn't really feel much. As I spoke to her more, I've realised I started to like her, I had mixed signals about what she felt but my friends really convinced me that she liked me. She also has a boyfriend but she said she wasn't really happy with him. We then had a party, just our little group, and the next day I found out from my friends that she didnt really like me. I then confessed my feelings on a 12 minute recording saying how I felt about her, and how I knew she didnt like me the same way, and I told her I couldn't speak to her anymore because it hurt me too much knowing that I'll only ever be 'just friends' with her, and I said I had to distance myself in order to get over her. She understands but I know she cares deeply about me and loves me (but in a best friend way) and its hurting her that I'm leaving because everyone never sticks around long with her. I'm now kind of regretting leaving her because I really want to be there for her and I wish if I could just get rid of my feelings and just be friends I would. It'll be hard but I don't know if I should just go back to being friends with her (even though I still feel the same way I do about her) and just be there for her and be a good friend. I just want her to be happy. What do I do ;'(

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A 12 minute recording? :lolwut:
Original post by CherryWine
A 12 minute recording? :lolwut:


a sound recording:yep:
Original post by anonymouspsych0
a sound recording:yep:


Why on earth...
How old are you?


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Original post by anonymouspsych0
a sound recording:yep:


What made you think this was a good idea?
Original post by CherryWine
What made you think this was a good idea?


Ringing her was too much, and I thought a text was just a ****ty thing to do, so I recorded myself, **** knows, she was crying through the whole thing.
Original post by ruthlessv
grow a pair


Oh really, I have a pair.. In fact, your mum actually knows them pretty well :smile:
Original post by anonymouspsych0
Oh really, I have a pair.. In fact, your mum actually knows them pretty well :smile:

would be
Original post by anonymouspsych0
Ringing her was too much, and I thought a text was just a ****ty thing to do, so I recorded myself, **** knows, she was crying through the whole thing.


A love letter? Much more romantic than a recording lol
Original post by CherryWine
A love letter? Much more romantic than a recording lol


wouldn't be saying that if you listened to it😂
Original post by CherryWine
A love letter? Much more romantic than a recording lol


Unless you have terrible handwriting
(Source- personal experience)


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Original post by anonymouspsych0
wouldn't be saying that if you listened to it😂


Did you include heavy breathing and dramatic weeping?
Original post by Wait, what?
Unless you have terrible handwriting
(Source- personal experience)


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Yeah I have personal experience of that too, not great - still better than a recording though :biggrin:
Original post by CherryWine
Did you include heavy breathing and dramatic weeping?


deep breathing yes. dramatic weeping no😂
Original post by CherryWine
Yeah I have personal experience of that too, not great - still better than a recording though :biggrin:


True, a recording is a little more cringey haha


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Original post by anonymouspsych0
deep breathing yes. dramatic weeping no😂


Oh no. Well its not as bad as it could've been I suppose :redface:
Original post by anonymouspsych0
a sound recording:yep:


you will look back on this and regret making that recording. I say just be her friend
OP, how old are you? The answer changes my advice so say


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Original post by ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
you will look back on this and regret making that recording. I say just be her friend


And somehow get back that recording and delete it

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