few girls have genuine interests

Have you also ever considered that girls aren't able to talk to you about their genuine interests because you never shut up about your local table tennis club and therefore they can't get a word in?


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OP since I was 13 I've been into sport, keeping fit and weight training. I've never bothered with dressing up/ nights out etc and Friday evenings always trained (I'll admit part of this was cause I had no friends but at least I didn't sit in the house lol).

Anyway Ive never attracted guys, I think I have loads in common with guys on my sports teams but their girlfriends are always sat watching them often doing their hair in a mirror and applying makeup. Make up and looking pretty must be what attracts men more than hobbies and so this is the females main priority. Any hobby/gym work might ruin the make up.

poor you

Have you also ever considered that girls aren't able to talk to you about their genuine interests because you never shut up about your local table tennis club and therefore they can't get a word in?


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It's your opinion. I know a lot of girls that have many interests who don't rely on looks. Maybe that's because I go to an all girls school and most girls really don't go "seeking" to impress boys and actually do have hobbies. So I can't really comment. Although I wouldn't class girls with genuine interests as a 'small minority'.. there's loads out there.

Well I live in a country that is predominantly British people - of which it appears you are not. Maybe your culture is different.

But my point refers to English girls and also European girls - outside of that I can't speak so much.

Besides - you are in a total minority so you saying I like chess and poker carries very little weight in all fairness.

I genuinely never shut up about the circus and training to get into the circus. Circus.

Also I will force you to look at many pictures of my urban exploration adventures through abandoned tunnels, castles and old mental hospitals.

And I will show you the many fancy hats and scarves I have knitted because I love knitting.

It's excruciating trying to find a boy with any genuine interests, especially ones that are half as interesting as mine.


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You clearly just have horrible taste in women.

what? wanting a girl with individuality?

did i say WHAT? No. I said it would be nice if girls expressed individuality as people.

Have you noticed how you can never talk to a girl about chess or poker or something similar? When was the last time you spoke to a girl who could play the guitar or some other instrument? It's as if girls' interest revolve around the mundane every day things like shopping and films.

Can they not stretch themself in life for something? Why do they rest on their looks to get them whatever they only NEED? Where's the imagination and creativity? Why are they such a minority? Girls don't really seem to care about anything and therefore don't seem to put much effort into doing other things. It's literally as if a pretty girl turns up and goes to work/uni/whatever and just lets life pass her by and get accustomed to her comfort zone of being a girl whose wanted with little else to her repertoire.

What I'm talking about here is not education or even to an extent career goals - but what differentiates you as a person? I find that every girl I meet is more likely than not a girl who takes things for granted (and if they're pretty and in demand - I suppose who can blame them?) - But it's like there's very little distinction between girls' attitudes. It seems they don't want to add any value to themselves as people but instead rely on their looks/other people to get them through things in life.

My friend (a fairly standard looking guy, not ugly but not particularly handsome), recently found out that a girl who happens to have a really gorgeous face want him. 2 weeks later down the line and they are together. It's like boom - girl WANTS something, it's hers. She doesn't? No effort then. That's how I see alot of girls. In fact, the prettier they are the worse the sort of princess syndrome gets I find - and it makes sense. If you are pretty and a girl you get whatever it is you need - why work for something?

I find it sad.

What do you think girls?

Obviously the phrasing of your post is dreadful. However, I would agree that many women seem to be lacking in personality – that is to say that they seem to have very little in the way of hobbies or interests outside of education/work. Similarly, though, there are many men who are lacking in personality and care only about beer/"going on the pull"/videogames/watching TV.

Basically, I think in the end that boring people will end up with boring people. My partners have all been very interested in one or two things and have been able to play at least one instrument to a high standard. They've also been independently-minded and have wanted to achieve on their own merits, not sponge off others.

Nobody is saying you need to have super exotic interests like collecting French postcards from the 1500s, but it's nice to be with somebody who is passionate about something – doesn't really matter what it is.