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Something about beggars and choosers...

I don't like to say it, but if you are turning down jobs on grounds of principle, I don't think you want a job enough. Getting an admin job in the Army could give you vital experience.
Original post by Em_Huong
I would suggest tailoring your CVs to be relevant to the jobs that you're applying for. When I was looking for work I had about four to five slightly different CVs depending on the role. If you're applying on line through a recruiter job ad, look at the job spec and use the words that they have on it to put in your CV; as they will probably skim through thousands of CV and pick out the ones with the skills/qualifications that they're looking for. I'd also suggest writing your CV in the third person and always past tense. These are just the things that worked for me in the past.

Also, ask family and friends if there's anything going where they work, get them to ask their family and friends too.


really?
Original post by TurboCretin
Something about beggars and choosers...

I don't like to say it, but if you are turning down jobs on grounds of principle, I don't think you want a job enough. Getting an admin job in the Army could give you vital experience.


If we were in 1940's Germany, and the OP was unemployed your advice would have been ''Beggars can't be choosers, get a job in the SS''.

'Beggars' do not have to lower their moral standards and as much as they want employment, they have every right to choose not to work for an organisation whose prime purpose is to destroy human life whether that organisation is seen by it's government to be necessary or by the majority of it's people to be necessary. And it doesn't matter whether that organisation's motives stem from good or evil - if you disagree with killing human beings the motive for doing it is irrelevant.

Edit: Our own government agrees with this on some level because they do not force JSA/UC claimants to work in the Armed forces, they force them into Poundland and Tesco.
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You're currently unwilling to relocate. That's likely the major factor. Do you even live in a decent sized city?

I've no problems with exploiting you as an unpaid volunteer for my startup if that's what you want to do come the summer. I'm sure most other small businesses and startups wouldn't mind either.
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Original post by somethingbeautiful
If we were in 1940's Germany, and the OP was unemployed your advice would have been ''Beggars can't be choosers, get a job in the SS''.

'Beggars' do not have to lower their moral standards and as much as they want employment, they have every right to choose not to work for an organisation whose prime purpose is to destroy human life whether that organisation is seen by it's government to be necessary or by the majority of it's people to be necessary. And it doesn't matter whether that organisation's motives stem from good or evil - if you disagree with killing human beings the motive for doing it is irrelevant.

Edit: Our own government agrees with this on some level because they do not force JSA/UC claimants to work in the Armed forces, they force them into Poundland and Tesco.


Sure, she has every right. If she really would rather be principled and destitute, then that is her prerogative.
Original post by tehforum
really?


No. Definitely not. I used to work solely in Recruitment/now work in HR/Recruitment and we used to laugh so much at the people who wrote their CVs in third person. Unless private sector Recruitment is different, I've only ever worked in the NHS.

Then again someone once wrote a poem as their application for a job I was recruiting for, so it can be worse...
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Original post by infairverona
No. Definitely not. I used to work solely in Recruitment/now work in HR/Recruitment and we used to laugh so much at the people who wrote their CVs in third person. Unless private sector Recruitment is different, I've only ever worked in the NHS.

Then again someone once wrote a poem as their application for a job I was recruiting for, so it can be worse...


Haha, I've heard of a CV done as a mind map. In general avoid clichés as well.

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Original post by panda14
Haha, I've heard of a CV done as a mind map. In general avoid clichés as well.

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Someone once wrote about a 'traumatic incident' they had experienced and 'handled' when applying for a Paramedic role...the traumatic incident was her best friend broke her nail and was very upset. I wish I was joking. Recruitment is brilliant.
Original post by infairverona
Someone once wrote about a 'traumatic incident' they had experienced and 'handled' when applying for a Paramedic role...the traumatic incident was her best friend broke her nail and was very upset. I wish I was joking. Recruitment is brilliant.

Was it an insta rejection?
Original post by Dilzo999
Was it an insta rejection?


Unfortunately no. Paramedics are in extreme demand, we used to source them from Australia, Finland, Poland etc so if we got someone apply with a Paramedic degree/finishing a degree we basically had to take them.

I did reject the person who wrote the poem, though. It wasn't even a good one.
Reply 50
If you're on JSA/UC have you asked your advisor about referring you to an agency that deals with finding volunteering placements as you've had trouble finding one yourself?

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So, you don't want to do any physically demanding jobs?
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take action, Half of this op was you complaining about what happened to you. no one wants to employ someone that is a victim and coming from weakness, You need to approach employers from a position of power, have more confidence in yourself. Also no one cares you got bullied, and employers certainly dont care you didnt graduate because you were bullied, all they care about is if you can get the work done and if you will be profitable, tbh based on your op i probably wouldnt employ you. im surprised your bf doesnt educate you about this stuff.

You need to find opportunities to get work experience, key word: work experience. it could be free work as long a youre getting experience thats all that will help you. BHF are always looking for volunteers. charities are always looking for volunteers. I volunteered for 5 months before I got my first proper job.
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Last time i checked, in relationships both parties should support each other. you chose to look at it as misogyny. So your bf cant educate you without it coming across as sexist? lol
Reply 54
Have you tried applying for jobs abroad?

Maybe also even consider starting your own business?
be an escort...i don't recommend this option but just incase you're really desperate...

surprised you're getting rejected from the likes of McDs..they take anyone
I assumed he probably had a job because you lived with him and youre engaged. Im pretty sure ive replied to you on another thread you created. Did you go to each bars and speak to the managers personally like I suggested?
https://do-it.org/

Go on that site. There have a lot of volunteer opportunities in many different sectors. I used that site to find work experience when i was a fresh graduate, I only volunteered a couple days a week, so still had time to go to interviews and do what i want. They paid for my travel and food too. so you can look further out.

GL
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Maybe rather than calling your CV 'beautiful' and perfection you should have someone look over it face to face as there is clearly an issue if you're not even getting an interview. Writing a CV is factual, unlike creative writing. You need more than just good grammar and spelling to write an excellent CV that stands out.

Also, charity shops are always looking for volunteers. If you live in a city it should be easy to find volunteer work.


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RE volunteering: A tip was told by a lady at my local volunteering agency was to not to apply for volunteering roles directly via sites like do-it.org; instead you should look up the places' contact info and get in touch with them yourself via phone or email. Apparently a lot of the time the application doesn't go through to them.

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